Katie1414 Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 My first Boyfriend of about 2 and a half months wants to take me out for my birthday in a couple of days. He wants to take me to the movies, and all his friends are telling me that he's gonna kiss me I mean, I know we've been going out for over 2 months....but I don't know....I just never saw myself kissing him....nothing personal....also, it would be my first kiss and I KNOW he's gonna do it! I'm just so afraid....what if I don't do it right??? Speaking of which, how do you it??? I so fear that day. I hope everything goes ok... [-o Please answer this post asap! Thanks, Katie \ Link to comment
JuJu Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 Don't be afraid! There's not really a way to explain HOW to do it. Just make sure your heads are tilted in different directions (so you don't bump together) and make sure you kiss back! Making out involves tongue, it might not seem like something that would be good...but once you do it, you'll like it. I remember my first time making out with someone, I was sooo scared...but then when we started, I just didn't want to stop. I think tongues feel really interesting! So when he goes for the kiss, just relax. Act like you've done it hundreds of times before, go in it with CONFIDENCE. You'll do great! Good Luck! Link to comment
lookingformyredangel Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 I know how you feel. I was terrified when my first boyfriend kissed me but don't be afriad. Just be relaxed and try not to bump heads. Don't tense up or back away because that usually sends guys a bad message. just try and relax and just do what feels right. Good luck and don't be afraid. -emma HIPPIES RULE Link to comment
ComputerGuy Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 When I had my first kiss I was scared out of my mind. I kept worrying I was going to stuff up or whatever. Turns out it was a lot easier than I thought. Once it happens just go with it, you'll be fine, just don't think about it too much and spend more time enjoying it when it happens. Link to comment
JRM Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 ...And remember, don't do anything you dont feel comfortable doing. Link to comment
Dezeard Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 When it comes down to it, you'll know what to do. It's kinda like instinct. Don't worry about it, just relax and go with the flow. Don't do anything you're not comfortable with. Link to comment
rbelle Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 Dont worry about it. I just had my first kiss recently, and its IN THE MOVIE, it was so nice, i can still remember it. Once he kiss u....it will come along, u will never know that u know how to kiss even if its ur first time...hehehe . Good luck!!!! \ By the way, dont forget to give us update. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted August 11, 2004 Share Posted August 11, 2004 Like everyone's said kissing is about instinct. Just do what comes naturally and feels right. Don't panic and be calm. And must imnportantly... enjoy it! Link to comment
Ceema-k Posted August 11, 2004 Share Posted August 11, 2004 hey there, girl, you're going to have a great time. I had my first kissing experience when i was 23. back then i knew sh*t about sh*t and even less about girls. and the kissing? went great. so to reuse a popular marketing phrase: "if i can do it, so can you!" Link to comment
mysterious Posted August 17, 2004 Share Posted August 17, 2004 Don't worry about it, I bet he's more worried than you. Just relax and you will be fine, you'll learn pretty quickly from him anyway Link to comment
Themegchan Posted August 19, 2004 Share Posted August 19, 2004 I know how you feel. My first kiss was well...scary. And it ended up not to be what I expected. After that, I was afraid to kiss my next boyfriend....he'd try to lift my chin to kiss me, and I'd look the other way, or hide my head. I was real shy. But then I decided to just get comfortable and everything was fine after that. And my definition of "making out" doesn't have to involve tongue, but it's more than just a simple kiss. Link to comment
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