What will someone do to commit after cheating twice?

[Hunney Pooh]

Do you guys believe that someone can actually change after cheating on the partner twice? If you think he or she can change, what are the signs or actions to be observed to show that they are changing or really serious to commit in a relationship??

[ComputerGuy]

I don't think they can, once a cheater, always a cheater, at least as far as the relationship they are cheating in is concerned.

[Mr. Good Man]

Yes! Some people can modify their cheating behavior. I'm one of them. However, it is very, very, very hard to do but not impossible.

 

The person has to truly desire to modify their behavior. You cannot facilitate that. It has to come from within.

 

I had to replace certain behaviors with new behaviors and ensure they became habits.

 

Honestly, it can take a very, very long time. If I can recall correctly, it took me about five years of consistent action, modification and monitoring to get where I am today.

 

Why would you desire to stay with someone who has cheated on you twice? Why would you want to continue to suffer?

 

If you have a cheater then he is also a liar. And he will tell you whatever you want to hear just to stay with you.