luvsomeone333 Posted April 21, 2011 Share Posted April 21, 2011 just curious.. i hugged this guy today and i had a great day with him and all... but i couldnt if that hug meant a "lovers" hug or friendly hug... i really hope its not a lover hug cause im not ready to go into a relationship as yet... =/...i dont want to exactly date the guy either... can you help me tell the difference between it all...? the hug that i had was kind of long ...like more than 3 seconds.... should i be looking into that? although i did notice through out the day that he was leaning againts me alot...find ways to touch me ( not sexually or anything) just a touch of the hand...or when we were sitting he was very close to me...am i looking over this?????? Link to comment
Snowy Posted April 21, 2011 Share Posted April 21, 2011 A friendly hug can easily be 3 seconds. If it's more than 10 seconds, then I'd say it's more than a friends' hug. Otherwise, you can't really tell the difference except maybe lovers' hugs could be tighter. Link to comment
NANsense Posted April 21, 2011 Share Posted April 21, 2011 IMO This really does depend on the person and their personal habits (varies widely)....but I do have different hugs that I give my male friends vs men I'm interested in--a friend hug isn't tight (ie: your shoulder area might connect--but not upper torso)....it sounds to me that he was flirting throughout the day....sounds like he's interested in more than friendship... Link to comment
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