should i or not?? Help

[hnkmp55]

Ok me and my ex broke up officially 4 weeks ago. she may be dating someone new, and ive been on a few dates myself. anyway going out with a buddy friday night. he wants to go to a place that is a half mile from her work. Thought about stopping in both my friend his girl and me at her work. and saying hello. That i would be at that place, that i had a few things of her daughters and hers and if she wanted she should stop by for a drink. What do you think? Havent heard anything from her since we broke up????Any thoughts would be great! Thanks.

[ToF]

Hi there,

 

Before I can give you my opinion, I'd like to know: What would be the purpose of stopping by? What would you hope to get out of it?

 

Kudos for getting out there and dating, by the way.

[Jd1983]

Honestly, I don't think it's a good idea that you are just dropping by out of the blue to say hi.

 

If she hasn't contacted you, it's for a reason.

 

She's moved on, and so should you. Honestly, if she really wanted her things back, she would have contacted you.