Whats the best first thing to do to get a man turned on?

[cfhlroiysds9y0]

ok so i want sex with my boyfriend, whats the best thing to do to turn him on without making it ovious i am asking for sex

[guynextdoor]

A passionate kiss always works for me.

[cfhlroiysds9y0]

yes hes not a major kisser darrrnnnittt, he likes kisses on the neck. but i think hes getting too use to them

[DrKitten]

During kissing, I usually start running my hands around his waist/lower stomach area, right above his pants. If I'm feeling more eager I'll grab the waistband of his pants and tug him closer to me.

[FarthestEdge]

ok so i want sex with my boyfriend, whats the best thing to do to turn him on without making it ovious i am asking for sex

 

Assuming you are of the age of consent....

 

What's wrong with making it obvious? DH loves it when I tell him exactly what I want...

[doityourself]

put your hand on his thigh or lay your head in his lap

[Staple]

Where a thong, walk in and tell him you want him to "insert word for sex beginning with f" you. That'll work.

[blueeyedme]

Umm...look at him.

[Cognitive_Canine]

I either kiss my boyfriend's ear or give him a good view of my chest (discreetly of course).

[dragon lady]

Touch it. He'll get the idea.

[BTC70]

The next time you go out wear a skirt and "forget" your panties. When you're out tell him you "forgot" them. He will be distracted the rest of the evening, especially if you throw in a few comments like it being drafty or getting a chill even more especially if your skirt were to accidentally slide up your thigh sometime when you were sitting.

[Gath]

for me, nibbling on my ears is like a shortcut to my pleasure center. done properly it feels better than just about anything else for some reason. my gf knows this, and uses it to render me at her mercy whenever she pleases.

[marshmlofluff]

Run your fingers along the inside of his waistband, all the way around.

[shygal2008]

Hmm you can show him some boobage..lol..or bend down in front of him alot..men like to SEE things are visuale creatures you know!

[regular joe]

Hmm you can show him some boobage..lol..or bend down in front of him alot..men like to SEE things are visuale creatures you know!

 

Couldn't have said it better myself. We are very visual creatures. So anything sexually appealing to the vision, will get his motor running.

[perth_man87]

I agree with pretty much everyone here. Guys are certainly not afraid of being come onto fairly strong- in fact most like it better this way!

 

So yes, visual hints (boobage lol), along with ear nibbling, thighs/chest touching and a bit of dirty talk are a sure fire way to get him in the mood.

 

And that's if you don't wanna come right out and grab what you really want! I understand not wanting him to think that you are his sex toy for life, which is why you don't wanna come right out and say it; but I honestly think you need to eventually get to a stage where this sort of exchange is natural.