Am I a lesbian for looking at female models for masturbating

[hereiam]

Am I a lesbian for looking at female models for masturbating? i'm a twenty-one-year-old girl, i'm a virgin , never had any,ANY kinda relation with a young boy becoz i'm from an orthodox Indian family who waits till the wedding nite..i've been mastrubating since 17 by crossing my legs, i look at my naked body in the mirror and do it or by looking at nude female models on net....i have two set of questions

1st-->i do have attractions towards male and have favorite guys at college but as i mastrubate looking at female's body i doubt if I'M A LESBIAN.. Althougth i definetly hate to live with another female all thro my life

2nd-->i did not get periods for last 3 mnths, i went to a gyn, she gave me oral contraceptive pills and found polycyst in my ovary,i have hair around the nipples, chest, chin, upperlips and in the naval area and an unpropotionate upper and lower abdomen, what is my prob? i don't think just removing(by creams or shaving) them gives a complete remedy... what shd i do to reduce them? can i use any pills, if yes what r they? Because i have lot of unwanted hair allover my body will i be a lesbian? Do i have tummy b'coz i masturbate? is there any way to reduce my lower abs?pls solve my problem...Thanks in advance

[Eh Im Canadian]

Ok, I know the answer to some of the questions you asked, but not all of them. First of all, being a lesbian is a sexual preferencem and just because you have hair doesn't mean you are a lesbian. Masturbating has not effect that i know of that makes you have a big tummy. The lip you have is probably just something you were born with. I don't think you can do much about that. Oh well, I don't know any other answers for you, sorry.

[jestersupriem]

No. you are not a lesbian. You said it yourself. But, I think if you remove all those hairs and flatten your belly you may get more attraction from the guys that may fullfill your masterbation to another level.

[wellswomyn]

Hereiam,

 

You asked a lot of questions, so if we didn't answer one please repost.

 

I do not know if you are a lesbian, and it is quite possible that you haven't had enough experience to know for yourself. I just saw a great movie last night called "Chutney Popcorn" that is about an Indian woman who is a lesbian, and her family. It was really good and I suggest you check it out. There are some very sensual scenes in it which may help you work through where your desires lay.

 

My doctor said that sometimes an oral contraceptive can help reduce facial hair. All women have it, but some have more than others. You are not weird or anything.

[spaggle]

hi i have the same problem with hair, as do alot of people, especially asians as hair tends to be darker. Im only fifteen and I also possibly suffer from polysistic ovaries. what i did was complain to a skin specialist, and finally they put me on a list for electrolysis. electrolysis is when a small(very, very,very small)needle is put into each hair folicle and burns the hair out. however this can be a long process taking around3-4 years depending on the area and amount of hair needing to be treated. I have recently been put in for lazer treatment. People say it hurts but i dont, I think electrolysis hurts more, and that doesnt even hurt!. Laser is much more quicker and effective, however it does cost alot, BUT you can get it done on the NHS.

I think its possible that you masterbate to pictures of naked females because you just appreciate there body. plus it is after all the only sex type body that you can do anything to(i.e masturbate, ypurself) and as you say u look at yourself in the mirror. thereforeeee a female body is what you are more used to. so that is why you masturbate to females pictures.

I dont think you are a lesbian. Also what may effect some of our hormones and feelings, because we have polysistic ovaries, is that we have a large percentage of male hormones. (every female does, but we just have a larger amount).

I dont think you have anything to worry about, about your hair or about being a lesbian. as somebody stated before having hair and being a lesbian aren't in anyway linked.

Many people masturbate in different unique ways, and your way is just unique.

so dont worry.

Sarah.

 

BE HAPPY IN THE WORLD YOUR IN AND THE WORLD WILL BE HAPPY TO HAVE YOU

[neewollah]

If you haven't had any relationships or contact you may have asociated the female body with your sexuality, that is what you know, you know how it feels and that is what you are used to asociate with pleasure.

 

 

I used to think that people should remain virgin until they get married, but now I've realized that is a HUGE mistake!!! There are TONS of things about your sexuality that you don't get to know until you are with someone else.

 

It is like my GF. She has had sex with 2 guys before me, and She got to know many things She didn't liked at all and many others that She loved, but most important, She experienced things that She wouldn't have been able to with me (for example my body), so She is in a better position to know what She actually likes and what not, for example, She hates a thin penis or a very long one, as simple as that.

 

You have to try things out before ruling yourself as X stereotype.