hellodoe Posted May 14, 2010 Share Posted May 14, 2010 so after 2 1/2 months of LC and NIC my ex asked me to meet up. i had been feeling very free and independent, i missed her but i knew i would be more than okay without her. We met up today and she told me she went through a lot since we broke up. She was very depressed a few weeks before we broke up and it got a lot worse afterward. She started getting therapy and is much much better, so she tells me. ALSO she told me she wanted to start over with me and take me on a date. I said yes which surprised her but said I wasn't expecting anything and asked for zero pressure, she said she could do that. She started crying she was so happy and saying how much she missed me and that by losing me and overcoming her depression she came to terms with how much she missed me. We agreed to take it very slow and only kissed on the cheek (which i am happy about - not ready to kiss her.) But she was very touchy and loving with me, constantly smiling. I don't know what will happen, I have other girls I was kinda seeing, so I'll have to see where that goes. just wanted to give you guys some hope you'll feel better whether your ex wants you back or not, trust me, i was in an amazing place emotionally before she asked for this. stay strong. Link to comment
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