cantbelievit Posted May 13, 2010 Share Posted May 13, 2010 I met this girl like 2 weeks ago at work, our relationship shows all the common signs(common for me anyway) that she "likes" me. So shes pretty cute and smart and I think I could make it work so I ask her out in a roundabout way. She says no and then the rest of the night(at work) gets kinda weird but we are still talking right. She starts making all these sexual references, and in the middle of conversations, says things like "friends with benefits", and worse. Then she kinda starts subliminally injecting them into our conversations....like...out of nowhere. there has always been a lot of minor physical contact and lots of texting. but that was the first time anything like that. she makes a lot of references about both of us being single and how she doesn't need her old ex-boyfriend. Basically im trying to figure out..why me? This is the third time in less than a year a girl has stated or hinted at the fact she wants sex, but no relationship. Im pretty young, but I don't believe in that kind of relationship, that's not the kinda thing I would do. I need help in 2 ways, 1. What do I do about her..... 2. What could I be doing that would make girls think I would be into that sort of thing? What can I do differently without making it sound like i want to get married or something... Link to comment
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