koolx Posted April 5, 2010 Share Posted April 5, 2010 I was in an 'Ultra Short Term Relationship' (UST) that lasted only 3 weeks. The girl stopped calling me all of a sudden. I called twice and texted her once but she doesn't respond. I met her at a social club that meets every friday, so, I do see her there. What must I do to get her to open up again? I heard that there's a tactic called 'Full Force Contact' (FFC), which is the opposite of NC (No Contact), that helps in this situation. How do I proceed with this? . Link to comment
Shallow Posted April 5, 2010 Share Posted April 5, 2010 I was in an 'Ultra Short Term Relationship' (UST) that lasted only 3 weeks. The girl stopped calling me all of a sudden. I called twice and texted her once but she doesn't respond. Why would you want to associate with someone who's obviously not interested in you? Move on, man. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted April 5, 2010 Share Posted April 5, 2010 You can't force someone to be with you if they don't want to. It was only 3 weeks, meaning that you didn't really know her...move on. Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted April 5, 2010 Share Posted April 5, 2010 How do I proceed with this? You don't. Unless you want a restraining order or everyone knowing you're a creepy stalker who takes rejection really badly. She's just not into you. Move on, there are girls out there who will be. Link to comment
goodfoot Posted April 6, 2010 Share Posted April 6, 2010 Full Force Contact, kinda sounds like sexual assault. I googled it and your post was #1. Basically everything after it was about self-defence. I think it would be best to move on. Link to comment
I_Speak_Jive Posted April 6, 2010 Share Posted April 6, 2010 Good lord. Full Force Contact sounds like the sort of thing that will inevitably end up with a mouthful of pepper spray. Link to comment
addictedblue Posted April 6, 2010 Share Posted April 6, 2010 I went on dates with this guy for a very brief amount of time and had no interest in him afterwards so I told him so and stopped replying to his efforts to contact me. After a while I thought it'd be okay to be friends and we hung out a little just as friends. Soon after I realized he couldn't handle it and stopped hanging out with him. This was about 8 months ago and he STILL texts me referencing things that happened back then and will tell me all these reasons he likes me, etc. I find him a really creepy guy who can't move on. This girl will probably think the same. Leave her alone. Link to comment
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