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Don't EVER cheat on your significant other.

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Leave them, do whatever, but don't ever cheat. The pain is beyond unbearable. If you even have one ounce of feeling towards the other person, don't cheat, because I promise you this--EVERYONE finds out. You can't hide it.

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Leave them, do whatever, but don't ever cheat. The pain is beyond unbearable. If you even have one ounce of feeling towards the other person, don't cheat, because I promise you this--EVERYONE finds out. You can't hide it.

 

OP, are you Sandra Bullock???

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I can tell you first hand how it feels to be cheated on. I would have rather her just leave then to do what she did to me. It's been over a year and I still feel it every day. The way it affects my life now and how I view other women.

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You can't control nature. Cheating will always exists. The ruling class can come up with as many institutions as they want but we men are geared to spread our dna as far and wide as possible whilee women are enginered to pick the best man for her offsprings.

 

Women cheat too you know.

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OP, are you Sandra Bullock???

 

Aww. I feel so bad for her. Sure, she's a celeb. but this was supposed to be HER year. what an arse her husband was. She's beautiful, and didn't deserve this crap. Jesse James isn't an outlaw, he's an ugly cheater!

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Aww. I feel so bad for her. Sure, she's a celeb. but this was supposed to be HER year. what an arse her husband was. She's beautiful, and didn't deserve this crap. Jesse James isn't an outlaw, he's an ugly cheater!

 

Isn't an outlaw biker the epitome of what a bad boy is though? I was surprised that she married that dude. She's so much better than that.

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It's amazing to see a cheater get cheated on for the first time and watch them go through what they've been putting people through all this time. It just shows how little thought these people put into how bad they were hurting someone until it's their time to get burned.

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I agree and in a perfect world, no one would ever cheat. But in reality, people do cheat and many do it without remorse.

 

and that's the worst. as the person cheated on, you want--you crave--that remorse. even if you immediately leave the relationship and have no desire to reconcile, one of the worst feelings in the world is knowing that you were cheated on by someone you cared about/loved and they couldn't give a flying flip about you or your feelings.

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Isn't an outlaw biker the epitome of what a bad boy is though? I was surprised that she married that dude. She's so much better than that.

 

Seriously. He's totally skeevy. I won't ever understand how she married a dude whose ex-wife was a former porn star. That fact, alone, would've sent me running for the hills.

 

You know what they say about sleeping with every person that your partner has ever slept with...

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Loki

 

I was with someone for 7 years. No matter how he stayed out, didnt come home, talked to other women on the phone and whatever else he did you know I never cheated on this man. This man accused me of cheating. He said someone told him I did. Please dont judge other woman by this one. This man was abusive to me, called me names, drank like a fish, talked about how he admired other woman, put me down in front of people and I never cheated. We are not together but I know no matter what he thinks that I never cheated on him.

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Never have and never will. Never cheated on this guy in 7 years, even when we were split up. He is the one who has to deal with the cheating he did to me, not me. I can go to the next relationship knowing I dont have to pay for the cheating, he cant.

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And I know cheating is hard on women, but the thing is you guys don't know how bad it affects a man. All our sense of pride and honor and dignity is washed away when we know that our woman doesn't see us as good enough for them, and actually let someone else inside her. You can't even imagine how destructive this has been to my self confidence. I can't even look at a picture of myself without thinking, "damn, I'm ugly", or something, even though I know it isn't true...it is just what I feel.

 

I personally will never fall in love again, unless the girl is absolutely perfect and we've been dating for a long enough time for me to know. And I will never trust again. E-mails, everything, I am always going to snoop because to me, this is the right thing to do. I should have snooped into my girlfriend's e-mail a long time ago, then maybe at least I could have stopped her from having sex with the other guy.

 

Ugh, it hurts so bad=(.

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^ Its not a gender specific thing. I struggle with the same emotions and Im a girl. Why would my partner seek out affection from another human being period. What is wrong with me.

 

Its common. And it sucks

 

Cheaters for the loss.......

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