Is she bi or just really friendly??

[oneconfusedgal]

Okay. So here's the deal. I'm an 18 yr. old gay female and there's this lady I work with that I really like. She's a bit older than me, in her 30's actually, but we have a really great chemistry together. She calls me pet names (like sugar muffin) and I'm the only one she will sit next to on her breaks. She's constantly joking around and ragging on me, but she gets possessive of me if anyone else does the same. She's also really touchy-feely with me and no one else. One day while I was cleaning tables, out of the blue, she walked by and playfully slapped me on the butt. She has even said she loved me, but I can't tell whether she just means as a friend or what. The big problem is that she's been married before (now divorced) and she has a son about my age(!) So my question is, does she just like me really well as a friend or could she be bi? And if so, is it really possible that she might want someone as young as me as more than a friend, or would that just be too weird?

 

-One confused gal in Seattle

[MVP]

Just ask her straight up if she's bi. I don't know of too many girls who tap each others butts, so if that's any indication, she's probably interested in other girls.

 

Enjoy.

[kuhl282000]

Hello

 

I agree with MVP, you could ask just straight up. I would be careful where I ask her the question though. If you do it at work, it could come back to haunt you later on. Sounds to me she likes you.

 

Good Luck

 

Kuhl

 

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[ItsyBitsyMel]

Ok, well I doubt the age thing is a problem because nowadays our society is much more accepting of these kinds of things. You have to find out if she's bi before you can find our if shes interested (obviously ). Of course, a lot of girls slap butts and kid around with pet names, so you can't make illusions that something is happening. I think that if you really care about her and wish to persue a relationship with her, you have to ask her. If you're very close friends, then why not ask her her sexual preference? Once you know (depending on the answer) make your move, or stay her friend.