Okay. So here's the deal. I'm an 18 yr. old gay female and there's this lady I work with that I really like. She's a bit older than me, in her 30's actually, but we have a really great chemistry together. She calls me pet names (like sugar muffin) and I'm the only one she will sit next to on her breaks. She's constantly joking around and ragging on me, but she gets possessive of me if anyone else does the same. She's also really touchy-feely with me and no one else. One day while I was cleaning tables, out of the blue, she walked by and playfully slapped me on the butt. She has even said she loved me, but I can't tell whether she just means as a friend or what. The big problem is that she's been married before (now divorced) and she has a son about my age(!) So my question is, does she just like me really well as a friend or could she be bi? And if so, is it really possible that she might want someone as young as me as more than a friend, or would that just be too weird?
-One confused gal in Seattle
