my girl is up for it 50/50

[shorty_2k4]

Although me and my girl have both said we are ready for sex with each other we never go all the way because she complains it hurts. my penis is not huge and not small but everytime she says it hurts. Does this happen to every girl the first time or is it just my girl? please help i love her very much but am not sure how we can get around this problem

[Christi84]

Have you tried foreplay?

[shorty_2k4]

yes foreplay always happens before we try. but this has still failed miserably several times. i go as slow as i can and be as gentle as possible but this does nto seem to work

[Daisy20]

Try using lube. It worked for me! Even though you guys do foreplay she is probably so scared that it will hurt that she might not get as wet as she needs to be. Try going slow and once inside just lay there for a minute to let her muscles get use to it. It will give her a chance to relax! And don't forget to HAVE FUN!

[Mythical_Suicide]

It'll take time some girls are "tighter" then others... And it doesn't help if she is tensed up, try helping her relax alittle more before intercourse and as the post above me said, use lube and be sure to go slow and let her body get used to you being inside her.

 

-Mythical Suicide-