Need Help- Before It's Too Late!!!!

[CAshleyC]

I've got one month left of high school. We graduate at the end of May and who knows where we will all be by then. Thats why things are so important to me now, I don't want to look back and regret not doing all I could to get with this guy. I met R when we were Freshmen. We hung out and had a lot of classes together. We've stayed acquaintances over the past 4 years. Our sophomore year, I sent him a Valentine saying I had a crush on him, little did I know that he had a girlfriend for a few months that he never told me about. I didn't find that out until May, so absolutely nothing happened within those 3 months. I was clueless why he didn't make a move, since everyone told me he liked me. So, now I like him still and I don't know if he likes me. We talk everyday and hang out sometimes. He's kind of a shy guy, so I know I'll have to make a move. What are some way to subtle drop hints that I really like him to lead up to what I'm really trying to say? I think I actually may be in love with him. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!

[Old_School_Dropout]

I'm a guy and i must say that nothing else makes a guy fell better about himself then to know a girl is after him. SO go with a direct yet suttle aproach. get him in a peacefull place alone the come strait out and say "I really like you" wait for it to sink in then just as he is about to talk put your finger on his lips an ssshhhhh him. Then slowly lean in forward close your eyes half way to him and getally kiss him passionatly. watch his reaction and go with the flow. if he is like any other guy he will be yours for ever!!! and will thank you intimatly in the neer future.

write back and tell me how it went..... good luck

[JRM]

No offense, you talk as though her life is a chick flick. Ashley, you should come straight out and tell him, but dont go pulling any of that movie stuff. If he is truly your friend, he'll know where you're coming from, and he'll understand.

Good luck.

[Old_School_Dropout]

I DISAGREE a movie moment is the perfect way to start a relationship if he reseves a kiss like that he will be practicly begging for more

[Happy_Go_Lucky_Heb]

lol it's not a bad idea. So what if its like something outta a chickflick? aren't they still cool to experience? I think it'd b great if some chick I'm close to just came up and pulled a stunt like that outta nowhere!

 

Chances are though that she's not going to do that old skool. If she had the guts for that sorta stuff, she wouldn't be here asking everyone what to do.

 

The way I figure is, don't drop clues, they're like games. Just tell him straight or make it so obvious that he can't look away. What do you have to loose anyway? you only have a month of skool left.

 

Heb

[JRM]

What i meant was it sounds like its outtah a chick flick because it's unrealistic. Sure it would be cool for a thing like that to happen, but I dont think something that far-fetched would work. I'm a realist.

 

But if you try it and it works, then great.