Im finally letting this go..

[dopaminefiend7]

hey guys im new to this healing forum and i gotta say it feels pretty good just to be posting on it...im tired of seeking advice to get my ex back after dumping him...i realize that truly this isnt good for me...out of all the "good" times there were more bad...i love him but in the past two yrs he makes me feel worse than better...i feel myself letting it go and i am finally coming into acceptance of that...he only has barely 5 months sobriety and ALOT more work to do on himself...i have 2 1/2 yrs and i do know better...i am worthy of being loved by someone who can meet my needs..and for now he cant..which is why i broke up with him in the first place...now taking the steps onward...

[Ihavetissues]

Well done you....Iam sure this is hard to admit but Iam sure you know its for the best.

 

Good Luck

[LillyLooWho]

Wow, what a rational outlook. If you can hang onto that you'll be better prepared for the low times.

 

I hang out on both forums. I like to believe I'm healing but I'm still hanging on to the ex...can't quite let him go yet. Soon though, soon.... I hope