Female Sexual Dysfunction - how to fix?

[codroft]

Ok My partner, I am sure of it has this, she has no sex drive at all that is running in viscious cirlce. She cant reach orgasm ever, and therefore does not feel the need to try, or have a healthy sexlife with me.....

 

She will not see sex thearapists or anyone like that?

 

Please tell me there is a magical drug? or treatment.....

 

This is destroying our relationship from my perspective.....

 

any information please would be great!!!

[erks]

this might sound crazy...try ignoring her as in sexually I dont mean just ignore her at breakfast....dont try kiss/cuddle etc dont make a move in bed, let her come to you...just try it for 1 week and see if she changes..... dont talk about sex, dont even mention it, you loose double the amount of interest in sex then she has and I bet she'll come a knocking

[codroft]

Sorry mate, Please read my thread in the Ex/bf or Gf relationship page, it may give you a full picture, as I am not really romantically involved with her anymore, and this may put a different spin on things?

 

cheers

[furious]

she's just an ex girlfriend that you're using for a f---buddy. but she's not even good for that. Why not find someone else.

[HeartGoesOn]

Sorry mate, Please read my thread in the Ex/bf or Gf relationship page, it may give you a full picture, as I am not really romantically involved with her anymore, and this may put a different spin on things?

 

cheers

 

 

Why are you asking for advice if she's your "ex", and you're not involved with her anymore?

[Gilgamesh]

Codroft.....let go already, Do NC, and move on.

 

Your not going to FIX her, and if she ever gets her Mojo back it will probably be for someone else, because in her mind ( where sex first happens ) she has convinced herself that she will never be pleasured by you. so sorry no magic pill is going to fix that.