Perfection Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 wow, for 6 months? no returns on affection for a few times i'd be out. i got the "why didn't you fight for me?" statement from her and i took it to heart. haha. so i fought for her. Link to comment
kittiwake Posted August 26, 2009 Author Share Posted August 26, 2009 A far better indicator of whether he is interested in a potential relationship with you is how he acts outside of bed and specifically whether he asks you out on dates he plans in advance. Wow! I love how this post has taken off. I don't have internet at home right now so I'm just getting back to my post. Based on the above comment, he isn't into me and he just likes the physical contact with someone. Because he rarely contacts me and when we said goodbye the last time he hugged me and just said, "let me know when you're in town again." Until then, I'm going to go No Contact. I don't want to. But, I guess it's for the best. Link to comment
ClarenceRutherford Posted January 21, 2011 Share Posted January 21, 2011 Originally Posted by Perfection things would be a bajillion times easier than what they are now. that's why you ask or make a move if you want answers. moves are best. You have to do this in marriage too, guys. Some women, like my wife will deflect me. I try to never ask, and make moves. After all, she says she wants me to initiate, so I try to "oblige." Sometimes it pays off and I'm allowed to proceed. Then something happens or she loses interest and it's like, "no more for tonight..." It may be her experiencing menopause, as she's 51. One day she can't keep her hands off me. The next, she's impatient. On the spooning, cuddling and kissing seem to work best for her. She also likes to give longgggggg kisses, which I crave. I love the cuddling also and could almost be satisfied with that... but I'm getting hungry, IYKWIM. So I'm learning from that and doing much more of that and letting it progress to other things. She has witheld herself from me for over a year. I've been tryingn to correct that and since Oct. have made some success. Being in other states doesn't help either. Yeah, marriage isn't always what you think it should be. Link to comment
ClarenceRutherford Posted January 22, 2011 Share Posted January 22, 2011 spooning leads to forking. S'pose I could guess, but in general terms, can you define what forking is? Link to comment
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