IS IT REALLY WRONG TO BE IN LOVE WITH YOUR COUSIN?

[BunnyMan]

It makes me very angry, that there is people on this earth that are soo not freaking educated on somethings, and speak out the "TRUTH" about things, that they really dont know, they just heard others. Thats how love between cousins, became prohibit. Am in love with my cousin and shes in love with me too. We are made for each other, BIG problem is the FAMILY, it gets to the point where it just messes with my head alittle too much. This is the story, she lives here in VA and on the next floor of my building where i live, sometimes i could even hear her walk upstairs. This relationship with her and i, has been going on for about 3 years now. I never knew her, at all, after 11 years that i went back to my country for a visit, during that break i took in my country, thats where all the love was born. Now that she lives here, with my aunt, cause her parents still live over there.The crap is that not long ago, my parents and my aunt found out of whats goin on, and it spreaded all over the family, and now we are the black sheeps in the family. YET..... we are the youngest and the most successful ones, they dont realize that we are not just living life and loving each other and messin around. I read in a website called link removed that NON-RELATED couples, if they take the time to educate themselves they would actually be jealous of first cousin couples. It got to the point, where i cant really see my cousin no more, we talked to the wholllee family and told them its allll over and we have nothing going on no more. That was our only way to see each other again, and act like "COUSINS", but still , the thought of us being a couple still remains in their heads. So now if we even talk, someone has to be there with us. Its like being in jail, where we cannot express our feelings or NOTHING, we cant even talk on the phone, and if we do its at 3 am when she's asleep, she calls and says hi. we have to whisper and talk quietly. Sometimes we talk in person but once again the F***ing family is present, and we even have our own languague with hand signals kinda like sign language but we invented it. It got to that point. OUR BIGGEST WEAPON right now is GOD, link removed has made me realize that in reality we are not doing nothing bad. Its actually bad on their side, that they are preventing us from what god once commanded Jacobb and Isaac to marry their cousins. And many others, in the bilble you could see that god says, all of the forbidden relationships, it talks about brother to sister love, dad to daughters love, and mannnnnnyyy others, and if u read it, u will see that cousin love is NEVER mentioned. You could find that in (LEVITICUS 18 ) IN the BIBLE. WE HAVE ALL THE STREGHT ON THE WORLD TO CONTINUE OUR RELATIONSHIP AND NO ONE WILL STOP US. LET ME KNOW WHAT U GUYS THINK. AND FEEL FREE TO E-MAIL ME OR IM ME ON MY MESSENGERS. thanks a lot.

[sphinx999]

Well just remember it is extremely common in islam and more respectable to marry close family. None of the children are mutants and as far as I know no plague has killed them all so I guess it is ok.

[SLBG]

Hi sphinx999

 

I think that ur Signature is so true:

 

When you fall in love you give away part of your soul, but you also gain part of some one elses, neither can ever be returned or lost.

 

Thank you so much, I only wish that the people I love realize this.

[sphinx999]

I know I am lucky because mine usually agree or atleast don't fight it. Good luck with the people you love.

[nobody_knows_jericho]

Hey Bunnyman,

 

Yes in the bible there are plenty of "incest" relationships. In the past, royal families, the nobles and the rich have married off close relatives including 1st degree cousins in order to protect their names and wealth. My grandparents were actually first cousins who married to protect the family's wealth.

 

In your case, you are very lucky because it sounded like you found true love. With love, you can do anything, be free as a bird and certainly not be hindered by what your family thinks. Not many people in this world have what you have and many will kill to have it. So I say, you should fight for your love! Do anything that the two of you can be happy even if this means going away from your family. Of course, it takes a lot of courage to love. I wish you strength.

[Shizzle]

IN THE OLDEN dyas didnt brothers & sister get married to each other? and have children? thats what i remember hearing in hsitory unless it was a dream, my view though, why should you be botherd what people think, if yout wo love each other than go for it MAKE it work