what should i do?? Should i ask him to be friends???

[Babetears]

i have a question... when my ex call me to get my stuff ... should i ask him if we can still be friends??? or should i wait til he ask??? need some advice here.... thanks...

[Tinkerbell]

If you wish for the two of you to remain friends, I say go for it. Don't wait around for him to do it, just do it first!

 

Make sure not to come on too strong though, as in, keep the buddy-buddiness until later, staying friends after a break-up can be difficult on both people.

[luxe_13]

I'd keep contact/ friendship minimal at this point. Give it a bit of time first. Wounds are still fresh. If you're still "in love" with him then don't try for the friendship . it will make you hurt more.

 

You'll get a better idea of where things are heading when he gets his stuff..;play it by ear...let him do most o the ltalking for now.

 

This your time to heal and get your life back on track. Don't do anything that will disrupt this process.

 

Hope this all makes sense!

[Babetears]

my sister told me to bring a guy with me to go get my stuff... should i do that??? im still vague about should i ask him if we can still be friends or should i wait til he ask me... i reallie want to stay friends with him.. even though i still love him...