Should I tell him I Love him first?

[deviousj420]

Ive been with my guy for almost 5 months now. We are both very deeply connected within our souls. I feel in love with him and im ure he feels the same way. Our actions speak very loudly. I want to tell him i love him because i do and i want to say it along with showing it. He has told me he will not say it unless he honestly truly means it. I know he feels it because he shows it. I am willing to accept that if i say it he might not say it back but i just want to say it to him, to verbally let it be known as well as physically.

Im open for any opinions or suggestions you might have - please post! Thanks! Heather

[laurag78]

From my experience in relationships

Give only as much as you receive.

If you give too much they will take you for granted.

 

If it helps, I too felt soo in love after the first 2 months that it was hard not to blurt out my true feelings, but I held back and i waited patiently until that 1 night that he finally wispered in my ear " I think I'm falling in love with you" and ofcourse my heart melted and I responded "me too".

We have been married for 3 years now.

 

Men like to take charge, wait and let him take charge. Give him time, wait until he's ready.

 

 

You get what you give!

[Evil_Bunny]

Wait for him to say it first. You are still in the new relationship stage so say "I love you" to soon can make things worse. Don't think so in your case. But if you wait a bit longer, it will be worth it!

[GeeCee]

Wow!! This is not a competition.

 

If you love him, truly love him, and are showing him, you might just be ready to tell him.

 

This is really only a call that you can make.

 

G xx