question for thr forum

[kantore]

Someone pm'ed me and said that the best way to get back with an ex is through the friendship route. They also said that friendship with an ex is a good indication that you will get back with an ex. How do you guys feel about this, any truth to that?

Kantore

[Tinkerbell]

I certainly believe there is some truth to that. Quite often romantic relationships begin with a friendship, and if both people continue to have feelings for one another after the break-up, pursuing a friendship may lead back to intimate relations.

[SunnyScott]

i think so, but both parties should have the same intentions; otherwise, one person will end up having hopes, while the other person doesn't.

[mahlina]

Hey whatsup!

 

I guess, just take it slow. Friendship route is cool, just drop off hints like, "remember when we...", just reminice on things, and so how it goes from there. After a while, she'll get the clue, and then you can tell her how you feel.

 

Take Care!

[neva_black_n_white]

i believe there must be something good going to keep the friendship there, but i found from past experiance that i just ended up ebing friends with benefits and holding on instead of letting go, for me it prolonged the pain although they were special moments, for some it works but for others it just makes it harder, if the two are willing to make a friendship out of it then i would try but dont assume there would be a relationship.

 

so i can see some truth in that.

kel