bar35 Posted February 11, 2009 Share Posted February 11, 2009 I can't believe that I am feeling so indecisive right now with this girl, but here is the situation. We met online. Spoke last night,and planned a date for thursday. I am considering texting her now just to say hello, and when we got off the phone last night she said to me "you can call me again before we go out!" So i was originally thinking I would just call her on weds, but now i just wanna drop a text. the problem? never coming accross as desperate...hmmm.. Link to comment
forever1130 Posted February 11, 2009 Share Posted February 11, 2009 Just call her, it's not that big of a deal and she will be much more appreciative that you took the time to call rather than text Link to comment
IronHorse Posted February 11, 2009 Share Posted February 11, 2009 Never text when you can actually do the talking... Call the girl Link to comment
bar35 Posted February 11, 2009 Author Share Posted February 11, 2009 I hear you . I also wrote my post wrong. What I meant to say was that I wanted to text her tonight and then call her tomorrow. Link to comment
flash83 Posted February 11, 2009 Share Posted February 11, 2009 I can't believe that I am feeling so indecisive right now with this girl, but here is the situation. We met online. Spoke last night,and planned a date for thursday. I am considering texting her now just to say hello, and when we got off the phone last night she said to me "you can call me again before we go out!" So i was originally thinking I would just call her on weds, but now i just wanna drop a text. the problem? never coming accross as desperate...hmmm.. im in the same situation .. have a date thursday night and i see her online on msn all the time.. but i think im going to avoid contact until the date. i prefer talking face to face i guess. Link to comment
liveconfidence Posted February 11, 2009 Share Posted February 11, 2009 I don't think texting is so bad. It's nice to be able to communicate without all the stumbling that can come from being nervous. It's certainly not a substitute for talking, but it can be a nice filler. Especially after the date as a quick "that was fun" without having to make small talk, or awkwardly end the conversation. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted February 11, 2009 Share Posted February 11, 2009 just call her. what's with the texting? Link to comment
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