CoCo2009 Posted February 6, 2009 Share Posted February 6, 2009 does that mean you made the wrong decision? Or is that going to happen anyway? Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted February 6, 2009 Share Posted February 6, 2009 It's going to happen. Hang in there and see how you feel in a little while. Link to comment
Ac143 Posted February 6, 2009 Share Posted February 6, 2009 does that mean you made the wrong decision? Or is that going to happen anyway? hey coco - so you broke up with him? Did you move out, did he? How did it go? I thought you were making progress or going to try counseling? Its going to hurt & you will miss them, especially when you were together for 7rys & live together, like in your situation. If you feel you broke up for all the right reasons - then it wasn't a mistake. Link to comment
CAgirl Posted February 6, 2009 Share Posted February 6, 2009 You must have had a good reason for breaking up with them so it is best to stick to your decision. Link to comment
CoCo2009 Posted February 6, 2009 Author Share Posted February 6, 2009 I haven't done it yet, I was thinking about it. Going over everything first you know? Link to comment
Ac143 Posted February 6, 2009 Share Posted February 6, 2009 Are you sure this is what you want...100%? I suggest not making this decision if you are angry or upset. Because then you might regret it & go back and forth once you break up. You guys broke up last weekend too & got back together right? If you mean it - you have to stick to it. Link to comment
CoCo2009 Posted February 6, 2009 Author Share Posted February 6, 2009 Are you sure this is what you want...100%? I suggest not making this decision if you are angry or upset. No, I'm not sure, I just have been trying to think about things because I have been trying for so long. I need to stop complaining and make a decision and own up to it. I can't keep going back and forth like this. I sound like a nutcase here on enotalone. I need to make up my mind and just stick to it. Still trying to figure it all out. Link to comment
thejigsup Posted February 6, 2009 Share Posted February 6, 2009 Picture yourself 5 years from now. Do you want to be with this person, in the same lifestyle? Or...do you think that you should find a person closer to what you need. Notice I said need, not want. What we want is often bad for us, what we need is essential to survival. Only you can answer that one. Link to comment
CoCo2009 Posted February 6, 2009 Author Share Posted February 6, 2009 thats a good question. Link to comment
DN Posted February 6, 2009 Share Posted February 6, 2009 Don't break up with him. You already know why. Link to comment
BeStrongBeHappy Posted February 6, 2009 Share Posted February 6, 2009 Don't break up with him til you're sure it's the right thing to do because a breakup creates a lot of stress and resentment if you change your mind later. But people can have lots of emotion for someone they know is wrong for them (i.e., drug addict etc.), and really miss them but still know deep down they need to break up and move on. So if you are fully convinced your reasons for leaving are valid, you will still probably miss him, but can move on and get over it. Just don't do it til you're sure. Link to comment
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