Lionel Hutz Posted January 2, 2009 Share Posted January 2, 2009 Because im really a softy when it comes to the opposite sex and you may not think such. Grrrrrrrr Manly man!! Link to comment
Cardinal Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 If it were me, I would find out and focus on what she enjoys most. One girl I was with loved having a guy run his hands through her hair and touch her head. It was a big deal to her. I'd just ask and see what she wants most that is intimate but non sexual and then help her out with that often. From a sexual standpoint, I think the main thing is to show restraint while expressing interest. I would avoid appearing too eager ime. You can be highly turned on and still give the outward appearance of composure and controlled arousal. Choosing what you focus on may be the best way to do that. Kiss her often and use the strength in your hands and arms to turn her on by holding her. Women tend to enjoy that combined with lighter touches at the right times. I would make overtly sexual moves such as breast and butt stimulation less predominant unless that is just what she is asking for. Your erection will be more than enough to let her know you are turned on. No need to get her clothes off quickly or even at all. She will tend to respect you and probably will want you more since you can stimulate her while showing appropriate interest and restraint. Gauge how turned on you both are and try to keep a mutual level of arousal. It tends not to be as much fun when one party is super turned on and the other only a little. I think your approach is excellent overall btw. Link to comment
subliminal7 Posted January 3, 2009 Author Share Posted January 3, 2009 naw, her breasts arent off limits. but everything so far has been with clothes on. i tried kissing her from her ears to her breasts but i get the feeling that she isnt cool with me unclothing them yet. i respect her and i dont want her to feel uncomfortable or forced into anything, me and her will talk and see whats up. thanks for the replies so far, keep 'em coming. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 dry humping cool? Link to comment
subliminal7 Posted January 3, 2009 Author Share Posted January 3, 2009 dry humping cool? i have yet to try this, im sure she would like it Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 Because im really a softy when it comes to the opposite sex and you may not think such. Grrrrrrrr Manly man!! Awww, that's so cute. Link to comment
heaven66 Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 we've only been together for a little over 2 months now. plus she is a virgin. She told me that until we started going out she was gonna save herself until she got married but now she is thinking twice about that. so i dont want to rush things. well the bad thing about all this is that no matter where you touch her and try to please her it will all lead to the "vagina" LOL...if you don't want to have sex with her now you better be carefull where you kiss her...Hell I lose my head and forget about everything Link to comment
NowandZen Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 Some women like to have their face held in your hands while kissing. Link to comment
subliminal7 Posted January 3, 2009 Author Share Posted January 3, 2009 Well me and her had a good time in the back of my truck last night. she loved everything i did and we are talking things out and breaking new ground. thanks to all who have posted. I'm feeling much more confident in myself now. Link to comment
shadesofmediocrity Posted January 5, 2009 Share Posted January 5, 2009 I know I adore being kissed on the neck, and having my ears nibbled/lightly licked. Trailing your fingers all over is nice too, or just softly stroking a sensitive area like the back of her neck, her cheek, or even her thigh. Be creative, but gentle, unless she tells you otherwise. Link to comment
franfran Posted January 5, 2009 Share Posted January 5, 2009 Kiss and lick her body, everywhere... mostly neck, stomach, hips, thighs. Run your tongue from her neck, down between her bits to her bellybutton.. then softly blow on the spots where it's wet. Link to comment
gal1989 Posted January 6, 2009 Share Posted January 6, 2009 U gf sounds just like how I was lol I was really shy so thats how she prob feels wen it cums to anything under the clothes. Guiding her hand would help coz thats wat my bf did. oh and get sum love dice they help and build up confidence to do stuf with each other (not below trousers, it does have "feet" written on the dice lol) good luck! xx Link to comment
paperneck Posted January 6, 2009 Share Posted January 6, 2009 hold onto her belt while you kiss her neck and pull her a little closer to you. Link to comment
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