bubbamackdaddy69 Posted February 9, 2004 Share Posted February 9, 2004 Hey everyone... Just a little bit of advice for people out there trying to get over a break-up.. Time does heal wounds. And the no contact works wonders.. My ex broke up with me about 6 months ago after a 3 year relationship and she started dating someone about a week after. I hurt alot at first but time does help. I did the beggin', pleading at first with no luck then cut off contact completely.The best thing I did.. I won't lie to everyone, but I still think about her often because we went out for so long and lived together for over 2 years and miss her.But I have realized that maybe we are not meant for each other. I work at city hall and my ex stopped by the office today to pay a parking ticket and she stopped by to say hi... I was shocked at first but didn't have that feeling like I did when we first broke.Maybe it's the fact that she gained 15 pounds or so..and I'm in better shape than before the break up..he he he.. Anyways the point is that the no contact thing and time does really help alot. I mean I still love her but accepted it all. Good luck to all Link to comment
tmarie Posted February 9, 2004 Share Posted February 9, 2004 That's great - it makes my heart warm to see an ex looking like crap after a breakup, when I'm looking hot. (Little secret laugh to ourselves.) It sounds like you are doing wonderful in the healing process. I'm working on it. Hearing that other people can do it gives me hope. Thanks for the giggle. Link to comment
bubbamackdaddy69 Posted February 9, 2004 Author Share Posted February 9, 2004 Yeah it took some time to get where I am now.. I do still think of her from time to time and sometimes get emotional but doing alot better since the beginning of the break-up.Especially since we were together for 3 years. But time does help... Good luck to us all ! Link to comment
Archivist Posted February 10, 2004 Share Posted February 10, 2004 hey bubbamackdaddy69, I remember your posts from when i used to post, we both lost our exs around the same time and mine too started to date someone else just 2 weeks after. Yeh just telling everyone else, that time does really heal, its been a bit different for me since i can never get real no contact, but it does help so much. Its funny really since my ex has contacted me tonight, and i too am not really bothered by it. Don't get me wrong but i'm not fully recovered but as time goes by you slowly realise that letting go isn't the worst thing in the world, you can live without them. Glad to hear that you are doing much better, i'm coping too. Goodluck everyone else recovering from a break up, its hard but it takes time, just remember that. Link to comment
mahlina Posted February 10, 2004 Share Posted February 10, 2004 Hi Bubba! Glad to hear that you are finally moving on. Did you trash her stuff? That's funny, she gained 15 pounds! Haha! I know, I saw my ex too, he's looking real chunky. I guess 'karma' does work in its own mysterious ways. Good luck to all of us! Link to comment
bubbamackdaddy69 Posted February 10, 2004 Author Share Posted February 10, 2004 Thanks for the replies guys ! She's actually stopping by tonight to pick up the rest of her stuff..Not much but still a bit of stuff... Luckily I won't be here but my roomate will..The girl I'm dating now is making me dinner at her place... I still miss her at times but doing way better than at first.... Link to comment
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