bluestar Posted November 16, 2008 Share Posted November 16, 2008 Ive been "seeing" a guy now since about September. Its normally very playful and flirtatious, but although we have kissed a few times recently, nothing more has really happened....yet. I say yet because it was certainly a possibility. I thought above all we were developing a really nice friendship. We connect well and are very open with each other and he has shared alot of personal stuff with me. He is now blowing very hot and cold. Affectionate but ambivalent on minute, then disappears for days with no contact, then a strange text. Suddenly. And its driving me mad. I feel like he's playing with my head. Help! Link to comment
leo_s84 Posted November 16, 2008 Share Posted November 16, 2008 Hmm i think he's just not that into you Link to comment
bluestar Posted November 16, 2008 Author Share Posted November 16, 2008 Ha! I would agree, but he has done all the work so far. Trust me. Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted November 16, 2008 Share Posted November 16, 2008 Ha! I would agree, but he has done all the work so far. Trust me. Maybe that's the problem..he feels he is doing all the work and wants you to take some initiative. Link to comment
Lusif Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 If he didn't like you - in whatever way - he wouldn't have opened up to you. And if he was only after one thing, I'd imagine he'd have lost interest by now. He might have issues. If he's been hurt in the past by someone close, then he might be scared of letting his guard down around you because it'd hurt too much if you ever left him. He might also be scared you don't like him as much as he likes you...? But I'm not a guy so I can't say. If you think he's worth it, be patient with him! Though I dare say you might need a lot of patience. Link to comment
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