Question about strange fantasy

[paulie77]

Before posting it, I would like to know if I am at the right place to post a message about a strange fantasy that I discovered, to see if anyone can tell me how to deal with it.

 

Is this forum a good place to do it? The fantasy is very strange...

[avman]

Yes, you can post here if you have questions about a particular fantasy.

 

As long as its not porno

[paulie77]

Alright, I'll post it. If you find it inappropriate, I won't whine if you delete it...

 

I've always been into sports, and a few years ago, I started boxing at a local gym to get in shape. Once every week, I get in the ring to spar - very lightly - with someone else.

 

Tonight, I sparred with a woman and something unusual happened. The sparring session went normally - we don't hit each other hard at that gym - but something was unusual. For a reason that I don't understand, every time that she managed to land a few punches in a row, I got a little... turned on. You know, with an erection in my shorts.

 

And... I'm not too proud of this. I never expected to get sexually aroused when doing a sports activity, even less when boxing!

 

Am I discovering some strange fantasy? Should I seek some help? Does anybody have an answer, an explanation or advice to give?

[r6]

are you saying you liked it when she hit you or because you were playing sports?

[Kadillac]

No you don't need to seek help. Fanatsys are natural and everyone has them. Some people take it to the next level but alot of people just like to keep it to themselfs and let it remain a fanasty. But maybe your fanasty wasn't about her hitting you but maybe it was because the girl looked sexy the way she threw a punch or maybe you liked the fact that she was more dominant and aggressive and thats what turned you on. I really don't think that it was because you want to be beat up.

[paulie77]

R6,

 

I wish I had an answer to your question!

[Derek]

It doesn't sound like you are a deviant. And is that so bad anyway? =)

 

I have heard of people that like to "wrestle".

Like, a person specifically picks muscular WWF women that can throw

them around because they like that sort of rough play. Sometimes

they don't even have sex.

 

*shrug*

 

That's not as out there as dressing up as a horse with bridles and everything.

[greenowl88]

I know it's probably a little late, but I was reading through this section, and I came accross your post.

 

I don't think there is anything wrong with you at all. People get turned on by all sorts of different things. Maybe it's some sort of fetish.

 

Nothing wrong with ya. Just thought I'd throw my 2 cents in.

[Kyoshiro Ogari]

Did you think she was hot? Maybe the fact that a hot gitrl was somewhat making contact with you was what got you turned on.