Friends???

[DeepBlueSea]

Hi Guys!its my first post here,I like a girl whose one of my best friends,we both are 20,i know her from college for a couple of months know

I was almost sure she likes me asked her out couple of weeks back,she said i'm one of her best friends and

thats all we'll remain friends,and she said if she goes into a relationship it'd be a very serious one,then she said she likes somebody,and she is not gona tell him,but she is telling me,(???)later the same day i called her and we had a long conversation in which i ended up asking her whose the other guy who turned out to be a very good common friend,(the same guy who advised me to ask her out)We still hangout together,have a great time and i feel she is insecure about girls around me,but after i asked her out,i feel she is trying to hide it and trying to show that she is insecure about the other guy(Jack),We still talk almost everyday,infact litrally everyday,her body language says she likes me,but she says she does't..

 

I'm in hell lot of confusion,her jumbled mind(GOD)she is intrested in everybody i am related to or close to,she shares all her stuff with me,her sister says she has no idea whats in her head,should i just move on?Wait?Continue as friends?Ask her again?Why is she acting like this?I asked her if she wants to go out with jack,but she said NO,She is scared to go out with him,(scared of Jack),at times i get a feeling she is just playing..

 

 

Where on earth do i stand??

[Frodo Baggins]

The safest stance to take in this situation is that of friend. It looks like she doesn't know what she wants, and if she's confused, the best thing she could use at the moment is a friend. That means putting those extra feelings to the side for a little while and help her, be her confedant, and the vent to her problems. If you want to pursue her, it would be best to be patient and wait for her to become a little more stable. That way the decision she makes can be more reliable than one she makes at this point in time.