Silversun Posted January 24, 2004 Share Posted January 24, 2004 Is there anything inparticular that you girls looking for in a guy, when conisdering to date someone? Link to comment
Tinkerbell Posted January 24, 2004 Share Posted January 24, 2004 I look for a guy with a great personality (as I mentioned in another post). He's got to be funny, sweet, caring, sensitive, and someone I can have fun with! A guy with a good heart Link to comment
Music is the key Posted January 24, 2004 Share Posted January 24, 2004 Most girls will go on LOOKS first and if anyone tells you different on here then there fibbing.Yes of course being funny,kind,caring having a good enough personality,having a good job,earning good money,been an interesting person,a popualr person.....All those aspects are part of the social pecking order of how most girls choose there mate,but to start off with it's always LOOKS Link to comment
Sheyda Posted January 24, 2004 Share Posted January 24, 2004 [This post has been deleted] Link to comment
sexynadaley Posted January 24, 2004 Share Posted January 24, 2004 I personally have to be physically attracted to a guy first - that doesnt mean he has to be a brad pitt lookalike just cant look like a gremlin. I am regarded as quite cynical so I think I'd need a guy to understand that and find it funny. He has to make me laugh and I hate awkward silences - I think one of the key things in a good relationship is being able to shut the hell up and not feel awkward. Link to comment
Music is the key Posted January 24, 2004 Share Posted January 24, 2004 ALL girls are shallow to a degree. Yes there are a few nice girls out there but iam talking about a bigger majorty. It's all about LOOKS. If you dont fancy the perticular bloke then are you really gonna chat him up or honestly be interested in him?No you're not. All the girls i have met and i have met a lot have all been one way or another shallow and materialistic.ALL OF THEM. Obviously theres different degrees,some are worse than others,but my point(And i do think it's a fair and truthfull point) is that to begin with all girls go for looks and sex appeal. The looks and attraction is what gets you through the door,your personality and caring nature and that crap is what keeps you in the house. Iam just been honest Link to comment
Music is the key Posted January 24, 2004 Share Posted January 24, 2004 "so how do you expect to find someone if you keep believing they're all shallow," Sheyda,I DONT EXPECT to find anyone. One can only hope,and to be honest i dont care if i dont find anyone because love and sex isnt everything.Women are not the be all and end of all. There just a bunch of liars after ya money Link to comment
neallo82288 Posted January 24, 2004 Share Posted January 24, 2004 Sheyda, I have to agree with the music. Yes, all girls and guys have to be attracted to somebody physically. Now, I am not agreeing that all women are sociopath liars and gold diggers, but they are out there. Attraction is in the eye of the beholder. And that is a fact!!! How else do you explain the short marriage of Lyle Lovett and Julia Roberts? Attraction is a must in all relationships. You must be able to look at your mate. :silly: Link to comment
Sheyda Posted January 24, 2004 Share Posted January 24, 2004 [This post has been deleted] Link to comment
neva_black_n_white Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 music is the key: yes there has to be some attraction there but it doesnt have to be vast or the main asset to a relationship or date in this case, but are you telling me that MEN dont go for looks also? i mean flip the tables if you will, it does work on both sides! and as for the first question, one thing that i particularly look for? i would say i look for someone who isnt false and doesnt try too hard, id like them to just be natural and enjoy the day or night. after all you have to be comfortable right? kel Link to comment
Music is the key Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 Of course both women and men have certain types and limits of who or what they find attractive. But usualy Girls are more shallow and picky than blokes. A man will sometimes have just about anything,espicialy when he's had a few drinks.But a girl is always on some picky crap,is he good looking?Good job?Caring?Funny? Link to comment
neva_black_n_white Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 lol, in itself i dont believe your post has said much for men, regarding the part on having any woman especially when drunk, i guess its shows that women remain to think that little bit more when drunk. or thats what i assume from your post. id give both male and female equal beliefs, but thats just me. kel Link to comment
Music is the key Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 Girls ARE more picky... It''s the truth Link to comment
neva_black_n_white Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 have you ever thought, that as you say through being picky, they arent hurting as many people in the process. i mean how would you feel, if a woman was to not be picky as you put it, dated you and in the middle of something that you possibly could call love she says to you that you arent or wernt what she was looking for. (this is just a scenario) i mean if she was that little bit more picky, making the right choice not wrong, people wouldnt get as hurt in the process, correctly so there may be rejection but to be hurt on a more emotional level could truly crush someone. is that not fair? kel Link to comment
Music is the key Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 Hahaha,what you just said happens all the time to men. Infact i know a lad who's girl has just walked out on him,2 months into the relationship fo9r someone else. Haha Link to comment
neva_black_n_white Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 see you saying that women are picky does not work. but what are you trying to say by that? still i feel sorry for the man, and see people and not just women jump into situations. so why not be picky? kel Link to comment
Sheyda Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 [This post has been deleted] Link to comment
Jhawk22 Posted January 29, 2004 Share Posted January 29, 2004 All woman say they want this whole package which I have found to consist of such charismatic charms of caring, intelligence, outgoing, willingness to try new things, take them out on dates from time to time. And at the same time looks. And beauty is always in the eye of the beholder. I'm a 22 yr male attending college. Believe me when I say that men are more picky than the women. Men want a beauty queen. Thus many men don't have a girlfriend. As far as women looking for all these traits in man, I really don't think that it is too much to ask. But both sexes tend to agree that when you look that good, you don't have to be nice. I have found many beautiful women drawn to guys lesser in appearance than them. And I just wonder how the hell did that happen. Link to comment
Cher Posted February 2, 2004 Share Posted February 2, 2004 Yeah I have to agree looks do play a part in what I look for a guy! But I would never go out with someone really hot without...respect for women, similar sense of humor, being caring and kind. He doesn't have to be Brad Pitt as someone said on here but at least decent. This is what I heard from a friend.... pretty girl and an ugly guy - lucky ugly girl and cute guy - true love ugly and ugly - no choice Well I do have to say I see a lot of pretty girls with umm not so good looking boyfriends...not good looking at all! Noticed that all the guy had to do was be nice and sweet talk her. And if I do ever know any people that are of equal beauty...well it usually doesn't work out one or both are players, its just what I've noticed. Link to comment
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