Truth317 Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 Am I wrong for cutting her off completely??? I don't mean to be rude, seriously I don't. But we've already talked about this stuff before, ya know? I gave you the mic and let you have an opportunity to speak and voice your opinion. Yet, you chose not to - only after when we breakup and you see what you once had is gone do you acknowledge what I was communicating to you for 3 years before. Family help me out. Cause I think about that sometime. But I just wanted to move on and I don't think it's easy to move on when you still are trying to look in the rearview mirror. Honestly, I felt this would be better for me. I was going through so much stuff at the time and I still am. My brother was suffering cancer right before he had passed and I just didn't need the extra drama in my life. She was a nice girl but she wasn't very supportive, didn't communicate with me all that well and she (along with her family) built a brick wall around our relationship while she tried to live a double-life; trying to be the girlfriend, yet entertain her family as they wished. She let them push me out of the box and she didn't take a stand to really say what it is she wanted. I hung in there for a good while, but eventually it just got old and that's when I talked to her about it. I told her I felt that I wasn't very welcome by herself or her family and if so than maybe this isn't going to workout. I asked her for her input and she said, "I agree. We're just different." So from that moment on, I was just like the heck with it and I stepped off. Am I wrong for just picking up and moving on and leaving her behind as I did??? I wasn't disrespectful and I did talk to her a few times after the breakup, just not as much or in the exact way she may have wanted. Link to comment
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