Iris-PJ Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Hello everyone, here is my problem. I am not good with long distance relationships, both romantic or friendships. I have been struggling to remain close with my two best friends. I have known one since HS and the other from college. Through my college years I was able to stay connected to my HS friend because we lived 2 hours away. But now, it seems we are all always too busy, and when we catch up it is never the same, plus we only see each other about 1-2 times a year! We live in the same state (thankfully) but 8 hours away from each other, plus we are broke, so we can't visit each other as often as we would like. I love these two people very much, but it's just so hard right now. To top it off I am not much of a phone person. I rather be face to face with someone. I just don't like talking for hours on end on the phone. It's just not my thing, never been. so how do I maintain these friendships? I don't want them to end. or is it just life, that as we get older, we all go our own way, make new friends and leave the old ones behind? any words of wisdom? thanking you all in advance, -pj Link to comment
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