ewokbiscuit Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 I'm 33, she's 40...no big deal if you ask me, but apparently it is for reasons I will explain. Here's the short of it: I met her in March and have been seeing her pretty regularly since then...slow at first then she kicked it into another gear by going out on dates with me, treating me like her boyfriend, and we ended up getting rather close (or so I thought), oh and yeah - I found out from her that she had a boyfriend who lived in Miami, so I guess I was just a guy she hooked up with (which I was cool with at first). I had a realization one day about 3 months into it, that I really liked this woman, I mean I was starting to fall for her, despite what parameters and boundries were set. I shared my feelings for her. At first she was cool about it, then she started to really vascilate and go from wanting to call and hang out with me all the time, to the next week telling me she would never feel the same way about me as I do for her. * * * ?!?!?!?! So now my head is spinning in total confusion and my friends and family are telling me to FORGET her, to delete her number. I feel manipulated and used and that she just used me as a filler when her real guy was gone. She always said she was attracted to me, just that her heart wasn't in it like mine was. I'm not lonely - I just wish she could know that I feel this way about her because I like HER, nothing more. I have since stepped back and removed myself from the situation somewhat. Any advice is appreciated. Link to comment
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