Andue Posted June 27, 2008 Share Posted June 27, 2008 I asked this girl if she liked me or just wanted to be real good friends? She told me that she liked me. This was awhile back maybee 2 months. I kept pushing her to go out but she said she had some family problems. Its been a little while since i asked her that first time, but we finally went out to lunch the other day.. So i decided to ask her again if she liked me or just wanted to be friends..She said this time maybee. I said I would be ok with if she just wanted to be friends. She said she was not to sure about anythnig and said maybee again..She also said she was going to keep that answer to her self. I dunno what this means at all why cant she just give me a yes or no answer? I think I came off a little deseparate and needy and that might be a big turn off..Maybee I should step back and leave her alone for a few weeks? My friend asked her if she liked me and she said he is one of the nicest guys she has ever met..I really like this girl, but I dunno if its just a bunch of false hope...I also stated that I didnt want to bug her and that if my flirting, and trying to win her heart would bother her, and she said no..But that she didnt want me to think that she was just trying to lead me on if thinks didnt work out... p.s. One thing I would like to add...At the beginning of all this she would come up to me and flirt and say silly things why wont you marry me etc...She was really flirty to me I really didnt even know her to much at this time...Time went by and one day she tells me that she had a dream that we got married...So I decided to flirt back...So i kept pestering her to do something with me, and I think deseparate is the fastest way to turn off a woman..So maybee me being to desperate for her has turned things around... Link to comment
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