watupgangsta Posted April 16, 2008 Share Posted April 16, 2008 so today i ran into this girl i used to talk with all the time in class last semester. well more like i saw her in front of me and i called out to her haha. anyway we talked for a few minutes and went our separate ways. however the convo stuck in my mind because i definitely think we were interested in each other last semester but nothing ever came of it, except i remembered i had her number. well anyway tonight i decided to text her and suggest we hang out. she said yeah. we're going out to lunch tomorrow when we get out from class, which happens to be the same time. my question is, how do i go about making sure im interested in her physically, and not just friends? definitely think theres attraction between us, and i think shes interested and assumes i am. but sometimes i'm a bit too shy and subtle with my intentions, and you guys know how it goes when you take too long with these things. anyway, i think i have a pretty good idea what to do, but i haven't been on a date in a while so i'm a bit nervous lol. any tips, advice, or encouragement would be cool Link to comment
millaj Posted April 16, 2008 Share Posted April 16, 2008 Good luck with that! Just be yourself and go with the flow. Show interest in her physical, but don't be overbrooding or give her the idea that you like her only for her body. Just take your time. Link to comment
watupgangsta Posted April 16, 2008 Author Share Posted April 16, 2008 alright so i'm not nervous anymore, its gonna be chill lol. but yeah i'll try not to be overly forward, thanks for the tip. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 16, 2008 Share Posted April 16, 2008 calm down. you haven't even met up with her yet. isn't it funny how when the conversation was just friendly it changed when you asked her to hang out because you want more than that? just act like it's still friendly, but be open and flirty. don't put so much pressure on yourself. Link to comment
watupgangsta Posted April 16, 2008 Author Share Posted April 16, 2008 calm down. you haven't even met up with her yet. isn't it funny how when the conversation was just friendly it changed when you asked her to hang out because you want more than that? just act like it's still friendly, but be open and flirty. don't put so much pressure on yourself. lol you're completely right ghost. i made this post right after we made the date so i think i was just a little anxious at the time, just cuz like i said i haven't been out on a "date" in a while. but right now i'm calm and i know its gonna be comfortable and relaxed. thanks for the input though ghost, i know you usually know whats up haha. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 16, 2008 Share Posted April 16, 2008 got any alcohol laying around? take a shot of JD then brush your teeth. that would help. Link to comment
watupgangsta Posted April 16, 2008 Author Share Posted April 16, 2008 got any alcohol laying around? take a shot of JD then brush your teeth. that would help. lol we're going to lunch after class and i gotta drive there. that doesn't matter though right? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 16, 2008 Share Posted April 16, 2008 lol we're going to lunch after class and i gotta drive there. that doesn't matter though right? it's cool man. don't drink and drive. just be cool with your swagger. you'll do fine. keep in your mind, 'what would ghost do?' and apply that to your personality. express yourself and don't be afraid to talk. Link to comment
watupgangsta Posted April 16, 2008 Author Share Posted April 16, 2008 it's cool man. don't drink and drive. just be cool with your swagger. you'll do fine. keep in your mind, 'what would ghost do?' and apply that to your personality. express yourself and don't be afraid to talk. haha, what would ghost do? well i just got back. like i said earlier, we had class together last semester so we had plenty of good conversation. but i don't think im going to ask her out again, to be honest. she didn't have very good manners and thats a big turn-off for me. we could definitely be friends i think but... ehh. lol, screw that. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 16, 2008 Share Posted April 16, 2008 haha, what would ghost do? well i just got back. like i said earlier, we had class together last semester so we had plenty of good conversation. but i don't think im going to ask her out again, to be honest. she didn't have very good manners and thats a big turn-off for me. we could definitely be friends i think but... ehh. lol, screw that. cool. now you know though. Link to comment
KISSKISS Posted August 17, 2008 Share Posted August 17, 2008 it's cool man. don't drink and drive. just be cool with your swagger. you'll do fine. keep in your mind, 'what would ghost do?' and apply that to your personality. express yourself and don't be afraid to talk. you guys kill me =] Link to comment
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