ilovethatgirl Posted April 10, 2008 Share Posted April 10, 2008 So... apparently my girlfriend needs a break to think about if she really loves me... she says there is something different about the way she thinks of me now, and she needs to figure out if its love or not... ...the only thing keeping me from killing myself is the faint hope that it's a change for the better, that she will realize the change was that she loves me more... But I know... I know, if it turns out she doesn't love me anymore... I will kill myself... I KNOW we are perfect for each other, I'll never meet anyone as perfect for me as her so don't bother telling me I will... I would rather just die than live without my honey... Link to comment
metrogirl Posted April 10, 2008 Share Posted April 10, 2008 I think we have all felt that way at one time or another about someone..... But we move forward.....Some of us hurt more than others, but it can be done without ending it all. Link to comment
Bunney Posted April 10, 2008 Share Posted April 10, 2008 Calm down. People change, feelings change.. especially at your age rank. You can't possibly believe that she is the only one out there that is right for you. You got a whole life ahead of you, don't let yourself depend on one single person. It's not worth it. And imagine how terrible she will feel if you kill herself and she knows it was because of her. You can't put that huge guilt on her, it really is unfair. Link to comment
ilovethatgirl Posted April 10, 2008 Author Share Posted April 10, 2008 It's all so pointless... what's the point of trying to be happy if you're just going to be anguished again... Link to comment
Bunney Posted April 10, 2008 Share Posted April 10, 2008 It's all so pointless... what's the point of trying to be happy if you're just going to be anguished again... You're being too negative, wayyyy wayyyy too negative... Be optimistic boy! No one is gonna hurt forever. Link to comment
ilovethatgirl Posted April 10, 2008 Author Share Posted April 10, 2008 I will... I cant be optimistic... everything I see reminds me of my shattered heart... Link to comment
enchiladaman Posted April 10, 2008 Share Posted April 10, 2008 You are way too young to be thinking about ending your life. Most people have several loving relationships begin and end before they find the one that they want to spend their life with. Whether this relationship works out or not...you just need to be strong and continue on with life. I know it hurts, but it will go away and you will be a more experienced person because of it. You have a lot to look forward to and many more beautiful women to come into your life that you don't want to miss out on. Link to comment
ilovethatgirl Posted April 10, 2008 Author Share Posted April 10, 2008 I dont care about other women... I barely even notice other girls... the only one I see is my honey... Link to comment
enchiladaman Posted April 10, 2008 Share Posted April 10, 2008 I dont care about other women... I barely even notice other girls... the only one I see is my honey... Unfortunately, that's how it will be when you experience a breakup. You can't think of or imagine being with anyone else. It really is a painful experience and I've been there myself... But I promise that with time you will heal and you will begin to look at other women more receptively. And you are only 16 man. You have a whole life of meeting other women and experiencing love. I know she means a lot to you, but with time you'll move on and find someone even better. Focus on some things that make you happy for right now and try to focus on improving your own life and become happy with yourself whether a girl is in the picture or not. Link to comment
ilovethatgirl Posted April 10, 2008 Author Share Posted April 10, 2008 I don't know why I'm suicidal... it isn't even a sure thing... but I can't stop imagining life without her... it's worse than hell... it makes me feel empty... Link to comment
Bunney Posted April 10, 2008 Share Posted April 10, 2008 I dont care about other women... I barely even notice other girls... the only one I see is my honey... Believe me, we've ALL been through the exact same thing. But we've made it and got over it and so can you. One girl is not worth ending your life. Imagine 10 years down the road... do you really think you will still be grieving over her? Naaaah. You'll be chilling in a whirlpool bath with 10 beautiful naked chicks around you! Link to comment
ilovethatgirl Posted April 10, 2008 Author Share Posted April 10, 2008 but until then... I will be in so much pain... I can't take it... it hurts too much... Link to comment
Bunney Posted April 10, 2008 Share Posted April 10, 2008 but until then... I will be in so much pain... I can't take it... it hurts too much... You're SO wrong. You can take it! It hurts but it's not more than you can handle. Link to comment
letteiljmc4ever Posted April 16, 2008 Share Posted April 16, 2008 you're still really young. part of the reason i thought about killing myself was bcuz my ex broke up with me and thought i loved him as well and i didnt want him gone. but now 1 year later im in an amazing relationship and am a lot happier than i was before. time does amazing things kiddo Link to comment
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