NC - trying to avoid temptation

[Phoenix_girl]

Hi All

 

This is just a bit of a vent. Right now I'm trying very hard to not give into temptation and message my friend.

 

We've been having some issues, and weekend before last i told ihm that he was hurting me and he basically shrugged it off. So i decided not to try and contact him. So its been a week and today he sends me a text message asking if i had heard anything from an interview i had last week.

I'm trying very hard not to respond to him until the morning because i dont want him thinking (anymore) that I'm gonna come running whenever he calls. I'm mad at him and hurt and he needs to know that.

 

Sorry for the rant.

 

Phoneix

[ghost69]

he's a friend? what are you giving in to? did you hook up?

[Phoenix_girl]

it's sort of a compliacted situation, but no we havent hooked up.

Basically I'm always the one to initiate contact with him and last time we talked he said something really hurtful and I wanted him to make the first move. I'm tired of him always giving me the silent treatment.

 

after a week he did send me a text message and I have since broken NC because of a medical emergency.

[ghost69]

so you are into him more than a friend? maybe he senses that and is trying to stay away so you don't get attached or get the wrong idea.

[Phoenix_girl]

he knows I like him as more then a friend - hes the one who pushed me to admit it.

And he admitted a while ago that he likes me too....

[ghost69]

well it is possible that he doesn't want to connect in that way. doesn't mean he can't like you in that way though.