Caterina Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 I've caught guys looking at me countless times but when they see that I see them, they quickly turn their heads. What does that mean? I dno't have too many giving me a blatant stare. Link to comment
backagain Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 means ur attractive, but as a guy, i feel embarrassed and awkward if i get caught looking at a girl...hehe maybe thats just me *scratches head* let me ask YOU a question, if you caught me looking at you, what should I do? Link to comment
Caterina Posted December 19, 2007 Author Share Posted December 19, 2007 But I don't have many guys who obviously stare at me...don't you think th at some guys would be brave enough to just look at me and smile? It makes me think its something else. You should come up to me with a friendly smile and chat me up. Link to comment
backagain Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 maybe you're so good looking its intimidating to come to you? another theory could be that these are guys with girlfriends and couldn't help themselves but check you out but dont want to get caught haha so what should i talk to you about? haha Link to comment
Caterina Posted December 19, 2007 Author Share Posted December 19, 2007 Yeah but I never see a guy just look at me. What about the ones that are single and there is no reason for them to not smile at me? I only catch them and then they turn away. Just make a joke about something in our surroundings. Just be friendly and if I seem to warm up to you, say, want to go for coffee sometime? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 well, u look kind of like one of the guys from Dune. kind of creepy. maybe that's why. who knows. maybe you are good looking. maybe they are mostly young cats that are scared of saying something to you. Link to comment
backagain Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 look at it this way, maybe ur just not seeing the ones that ARE staring at you...haha....u ever thought about going up to one that catches ur eye and say hi? how would i know ur warming up to me? lol u make it sound so easy! Link to comment
Lionel Hutz Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 HAHA this happens to me on the subway alot. I get caught and just stare at the floor. For fear of the "Ew what the F++k are you looking at." How does smiling back work when it comes to the ladies you have no clue about. Link to comment
Caterina Posted December 19, 2007 Author Share Posted December 19, 2007 Maybe you're right. I just don't know why more men don't come up to me. I mean, what makes me intimidating if thats it? I know attractive to semi attractive to normal women who have men who aren't afraid to hit on them all the time. As far as ways to tell if you're warming up. Don't be nervous, or scared...or if you are: hide it. Just relax and chat me up. If I smile at you and start to look at your eyes or tilt my head or say a joke back to you...thats a good sign. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 do you have that open look on your face or could you possibly be giving off that don't talk to me vibe? sometimes i'll talk to women and they will think i look like a player. i get misjudged. i don't mean to look that way. i guess since i'm good looking, take care of my body, etc. i dunno. i guess women think i'm stuck up. maybe guys think that of you. like oh she is prolly a b****. Link to comment
rocio Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 he's trying to see how the trunk compares with the hood. Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 he's trying to see how the trunk compares with the hood. LOL Hehe YEP. Link to comment
servedcold Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 Guys check out literally every woman they see that fits their sexual attraction parameters of body shape, then we continue to qualify based on other parameters. Literally every woman. This is tricky, though, cause we don't want to be perceived as creeps or pervs, and there is a very wide variety of women's tastes, so to one woman, we are an "interesting man checking me out," to another "a child molester looking dude is staring me down and creeping me out!" Link to comment
CaptainPlanet Posted December 20, 2007 Share Posted December 20, 2007 I've caught guys looking at me countless times but when they see that I see them, they quickly turn their heads. What does that mean? I dno't have too many giving me a blatant stare. it means ur hawt and they're scared you might eat them if they are caught looking at you guys are taught to be nervous about their sexuality. then girls wonder why they hesitate to ask them out Link to comment
Edak Posted December 20, 2007 Share Posted December 20, 2007 Maybe you have a booger hangin from your nose and no one dares tell you? What do you want to hear? It's one of two things I would say; 1) You catch people who just happen to be looking (cause human eyes wander sometimes) and you're trying to make too much of the situation. or 2) You're gorgeous. It's common for males to look at pretty women. And if it's the second on, then it's quite possible you are without a welcoming look and thereforeee you scare then. We men don't want to mess with someone if we think they'll bite our head off for saying Hi Link to comment
BWhitty Posted December 20, 2007 Share Posted December 20, 2007 I don't know many SINGLE guy's with the confidence to smile back and chat an attractive potential mate up. Most of what other guy's in other post's have said is true. There are many possibilities. If you are at least reasonably attractive (and interested in them), and getting checked out like that, then you may have to make the first move... you never know, and it can't hurt. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted December 20, 2007 Share Posted December 20, 2007 i know some hot girls that complain about this. yet, they still doll themselves up before they go out cause they want the attention. a lot of the complaints they tell me are from guys that aren't their type and what they consider 'ugly'. Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted December 20, 2007 Share Posted December 20, 2007 I get the same thing. But it doesn't bother me. I take it as a compliment. Even if the guy isn't my 'type', I still like to know I can turn heads. Link to comment
Dating Coach Posted December 20, 2007 Share Posted December 20, 2007 maybe you're so good looking its intimidating to come to you? Pics or work. :splat: Link to comment
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