phoenix91 Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 General question, what do you guys think about dating older women... ? Link to comment
Entropy Smith Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 For you that would be 16! I've learned alot from dating older women although they'd never be GF or marriage material. Link to comment
phoenix91 Posted November 25, 2007 Author Share Posted November 25, 2007 For you that would be 16! I've learned alot from dating older women although they'd never be GF or marriage material. lol,yeah...16! Actually I'm learning in this "smart students" class, and I was born in 12/25/1991.. while my classmates were born in 1990...that's why I'm asking Link to comment
Entropy Smith Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 Its alittle tough at that age with that much of a gap but not impossible. If your an "Alpha" for lack of a better term age won't matter. Link to comment
rs.dallaire Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman, regardless of her age. I probbaly wouldn't want to marry a woman who is too old or too young but I can certainly see the benefits in dating a confident lady in her forties as much as enjoying the energy of a young vixen. Link to comment
phoenix91 Posted November 25, 2007 Author Share Posted November 25, 2007 A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman, regardless of her age. I probbaly wouldn't want to marry a woman who is too old or too young but I can certainly see the benefits in dating a confident lady in her forties as much as enjoying the energy of a young vixen. So you date older women but you dont think about marrying them .. ? Link to comment
Portage Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 Watch it!! I can read Link to comment
phoenix91 Posted November 25, 2007 Author Share Posted November 25, 2007 Its alittle tough at that age with that much of a gap but not impossible. If your an "Alpha" for lack of a better term age won't matter. We're all "Alphas",lol And we talk normally, like there's no gap between us..its just that most of my friends tell me that I shouldn't consider having a relationship with them, cuz they're older than me... Link to comment
rs.dallaire Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 So you date older women but you dont think about marrying them .. ? I'm 31. I'd consider marriage if it's really important for the lady (it isn't for me) and if we can have kids together. I could have a fulfilling long term relationship with a woman significantly older (45+) but it obviously wouldn't be for the same reasons. I enjoy the company of beautiful women of all ages as they are all different. Check them out and you'll see for yourself. Link to comment
Entropy Smith Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 There can only be one Alpha in a group Phoenix, remember that. You have to get your social capital up in the group...to do that you have to make them respect you... Step 1...is be unconcerned with fitting in the group....an impossible task for most at your age...but who knows... Link to comment
Entropy Smith Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 Watch it!! I can read Age is relative of course in terms of the word "older." Link to comment
phoenix91 Posted November 25, 2007 Author Share Posted November 25, 2007 There can only be one Alpha in a group Phoenix, remember that. You have to get your social capital up in the group...to do that you have to make them respect you... Step 1...is be unconcerned with fitting in the group....an impossible task for most at your age...but who knows... Step 1 is easy... In fact, when I talk, they all listen...like if I'm the leader...lol Link to comment
rs.dallaire Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 Step 1 is easy... In fact, when I talk, they all listen...like if I'm the leader...lol The right thing to say when it comes to women is: "In fact, when she talks, I listen..." Link to comment
phoenix91 Posted November 25, 2007 Author Share Posted November 25, 2007 The right thing to say when it comes to women is: "In fact, when she talks, I listen..." I don't mean when I'm talking to girls.. I mean when I talk the whole class listens, I think that shows they respect me, doesn't it .. ? Its not about attracting the woman,, its about attracting older women.. Link to comment
rs.dallaire Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 I don't mean when I'm talking to girls.. I mean when I talk the whole class listens, I think that shows they respect me, doesn't it .. ? Its not about attracting the woman,, its about attracting older women.. It does show that they respect you. You have to be careful with that card though as you become a true leader by listening, not by talking (don't believe the action movies). Same goes with the women, especially older women. They want a man who can express himself in a smart way but they most definitely want a man who can listen and pay attention. Listening is the key... Link to comment
phoenix91 Posted November 25, 2007 Author Share Posted November 25, 2007 It does show that they respect you. You have to be careful with that card though as you become a true leader by listening, not by talking (don't believe the action movies). Same goes with the women, especially older women. They want a man who can express himself in a smart way but they most definitely want a man who can listen and pay attention. Listening is the key... Yea, I know that.. I'm just confused about the idea of dating older women, its like "should I, or shouldn't I..?!" My friends tell me I shouldn't..but I'm not convinced..(when I talk to older girls, I never expect anything from them, because they wouldn't act like if I'm flirting or something.. they would just think I'm joking...) Link to comment
rs.dallaire Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 Here's a simple answer: if you both feel like it and if the relationship makes you feel good, why not? If you "shouldn't" date a certain person, it'll be quite apparent in your first contacts. Link to comment
SuperSport Posted November 26, 2007 Share Posted November 26, 2007 I would date older women. Like one or two years max. Link to comment
House of Taboo Posted November 26, 2007 Share Posted November 26, 2007 All I have to say is to stay awake and keep up at your own pace. Link to comment
Superfreak Posted November 26, 2007 Share Posted November 26, 2007 I think I want to have kids some day so I'll be a bit skittish about dating a woman past her 30's. I'd definitely date a woman maybe up to 4 or 5 years older then me max. I've dated a woman one year older. Link to comment
love_ow Posted November 26, 2007 Share Posted November 26, 2007 hey guys, i wouldnt mind dating a older woman. i prefer them to younger ones. Link to comment
phoenix91 Posted November 26, 2007 Author Share Posted November 26, 2007 Here's a simple answer: if you both feel like it and if the relationship makes you feel good, why not? If you "shouldn't" date a certain person, it'll be quite apparent in your first contacts. Wel, if you are convinced to stay away from older women, you will never like them...right ? That's what I'm saying, I need to change that idea... Link to comment
phoenix91 Posted November 26, 2007 Author Share Posted November 26, 2007 I think I want to have kids some day so I'll be a bit skittish about dating a woman past her 30's. I'd definitely date a woman maybe up to 4 or 5 years older then me max. I've dated a woman one year older. I would date older women. Like one or two years max. All I have to say is to stay awake and keep up at your own pace. So you guys don't expect to have a serious relationship with older women, right ... ? Why ...?! Link to comment
Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll Posted November 26, 2007 Share Posted November 26, 2007 i was 19 she was in her mid 20's i thought it was fine. Link to comment
phoenix91 Posted November 26, 2007 Author Share Posted November 26, 2007 hey guys, i wouldnt mind dating a older woman. i prefer them to younger ones. Nice answer Link to comment
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