bodomx Posted September 19, 2007 Share Posted September 19, 2007 My exgf brokeup with me in 2003, after being with me for 1 year....The only reason is that she felt for someone else.....this is not a valid reason in my point of view....She told me that he is much better.... Two weeks ago she approached me after breaking up with two relationships that she had after our breakup....She told me that during the years we were apart and she dated, she found that Im different than others she dated with....She said that others are all fake....I waited for her for the last three years.....But, still Im not sure of the decision I have to make...She proposed me to marry her....I really love her but what she did to me in the past was so bad....So, please tell me what decision I have to take in this case......when she returned after 3 years findingout that im the one for her.... Link to comment
littlestar Posted September 19, 2007 Share Posted September 19, 2007 No one can make a decision for you, this is something you have to make yourself. We can offer advice but at the end of the day the decision is up to you. Basically what she did is dump you because she thought she could find better, had a good time with everyone, found out there was a lot worse in the world so she comes back running to you. I'd boot her as far as you can. She is bad news. Link to comment
sti_2004 Posted September 19, 2007 Share Posted September 19, 2007 ^ i agree. say you'll marry her, then dump her on the wedding day. Link to comment
pester1c Posted September 19, 2007 Share Posted September 19, 2007 Marrying right away would be a bad idea... If you feel like you can deal with any outcome, you can start dating casually for few days and see how much she is honest with you and what changes she has made in her since. If you feel you can get hurt, dont travel this road. Link to comment
Clabs Posted September 19, 2007 Share Posted September 19, 2007 Hey bodomx How old is this girl now? It sounds like she was pretty young when this all started what with her parents getting involved and all and it is important to know this as I feel it'll make a huge difference to how you should proceed. Mark Link to comment
papalazarou Posted September 19, 2007 Share Posted September 19, 2007 ^ i agree. say you'll marry her, then dump her on the wedding day. ***spits coffee all over keyboard*** That my friend is post of the day! LMFAO Link to comment
darksaila Posted September 19, 2007 Share Posted September 19, 2007 when someone wants marriage right away thats a red flag something is definitely WRONG. Link to comment
bodomx Posted September 20, 2007 Author Share Posted September 20, 2007 Yeah...she was young and she was studying that time.....She told me that she regret that she hurt me for a long period of time and that she is sorry for that....I said Ok....I really waited for her all these days......She told me that she realized that no one she dated after our breakup was as good as me and thats the reason she returned back.... Link to comment
bodomx Posted September 21, 2007 Author Share Posted September 21, 2007 20 years old..exactly Link to comment
dqueen Posted September 21, 2007 Share Posted September 21, 2007 So she discovered that the grass is not greener on the other side, and now she wants you back. Right. Link to comment
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