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My girl friend didnt breakup with me. But we had a prob and her mom knew about it. Then her mom got upset and does not want her to be with me cos we had a prob. But I told my girl friend to meet me and solve everyting. She told me that she needs time to think and she will call me after a week. Her mom took her phone so I cant contact her. The two times I met her, She talked to me but wanted me to leave soon cos she is worried of something like her mom is not OK with us. What I dont know is why she is not explaining me somethings what is going on. I am just guessing things. I am waiting and hoping. Should I try to contact her or not??

I have used NC for 14 months. She broke up with her ex citing that her parents disagree. She talks to me now. But said that she does not want to be with anyone at the momet. She said that she still hope that her ex will come back though she is the one who dumped him. Her parents and the whole faimily agree with me but she does now still change her mind. I was once her bf. and I hope she d give me an anwer soon. Its only a week after she broke up with her ex. I guess she still have strong feeling for him. May be they were much closer during the 13 months theve spent together. There are rumors that her ex will get married this December but she said that she does not believe that and that shell still wait for him. Can anyone telll me what I have to do next or guess what shell do next?

I had used NC of 14 months and tried her once again. She wanted to meet me the night she brokeup with her ex. I said I was busy then went the next night. SHe told that she do not want to be with anyone else. The next day on the phone she told me that she will say Either YES or NO after she finishes her studies.ie. after 1 year and 6 months. I told her that Ill be waiting but the problem is that if she says no than thatd break me once again. Then Ive sent her a card saying that I wish all the best in what ever she do. Then she told me to forget about her cos she is now having a bf. I cant believe she is having a bf cos she told me that she will not have one and that she broke up with her ec only 4 days ago. Can anyone predict the possible things that might happen?

I used no contact for 14 months with my EX. During those days she had a boy friend. 4 days ago the gal dumped him citing that her parents disagree. Her parents want her to be my gal friend acording to her cousins words. 3 days ago she told me that she has something to say and wanted to meet me. I deliberately missed that meeting and went the next night. She said that she dont want to be with any one at the moment. I guess she is not in a good mood these days cos its only a few days after she left her bf. They she dialed my number which she stole from her cousins handphone, and told me to get another gal. I refused and she said she needed some time. I told her that I could give her time as much as she wants. Then she told me to wait till she finishes her studies. she told me that she will give an answer after she finishes her studies. thats after 18 months. I told her that Id be waiting and hoping till that day. Both of us agreed. Can anyone predict whats going on with it all and what she might do next?

A friend of both of us told her that I had an affair with someone else which I dont. Then she wants to find out the truth. I guess why it should matter to her if I am having an affair, (because she is also having an affair.)

Its been more than a year since my ex dumped me. But still she tries to find out how I am doing. She is curious to find out what I am doing. Can anyone know or can atleast guess what she is thinking and what she wants to do to me. ( note that she is having an affair at the mean time )

The reason for breakup is that she found someone new. I just want to know why she wants to find out things about me

My ex and me broke up 10 months ago. Since then I never had contacted her. Yesterday she asked a friend of mine whether I have a girl friend or not. He told he that he thinks that I dont have a gf at the moment. Then she said it is better for her if I get one. Why is she trying to find out whether I have a gf or not? And why is she wanting me to have one?

Here are the latest developments on the strory Ive posted here. I saw her 2 months ago on the street. She just smiled at me. what does that mean? Now she's finished her studies. My phone is disconnected and she cant call. Her parents stopped her meeting her new boy friend. They ve promised me that she will be thier for me. She broke up against their will. I dont want to call her first cos she's the one who broke up. She finished her studies and the day that she would call have passed. Does that mean that she will never call me again?

For how long do I have to use NC?

We started our relationship on 17th June 2003. But met and talked for only about six months. She asked me to wait for a year till she finish her studies. She promised me that she will never leave me even if something happens to us. But she refused to meet me and I am not allowed to call her even once in six months. I tried. But found it very hard to live wothout calling her. So, I call and try to talk to her about once in a month. After I have waited for 8 months, she one day told me on the phone that she hasleft me and found someone who is better than me. My friends even told me that she found someone else. I find it very hard to believe because I still remember the promises she made and the love she gave to me on those few days we met. I am her second boyfriend. Now she went with her first boyfriend's brother. Now her first boyfriend s turned to be a very close friend of her since she now is her brothers girl friend. I havent heard a girl having relationship with brothers, though it is not at the same time. I also know that her sisters and cousins also tried to change her mind to leave me. I found it very heard to believe that she left me. Then I sent her a note saying that I cant believe that she has left, and that I know that she still loves me. I wrote that I am waiting till she finish her exams and hope that she will call me on the day she finish the exams. In response she wrote that she is now with someone else ( and told me its her first boyfriend that she is again with since he is better than me. But she really is with his brother). I don;t know why she is telling lies now. She wrote on the note severaltimes that she hate me and wrote not to disturb her. The next day I sent her a sorry card. she opened it and read it but sent it with a piece of note saying that she don't need anything from me. Both of us have our phone lines disconnected. Now I cannot contact her and in case if she wants shealso can't. I asked my best friend about what to do next to get her back, he told me to use the no contact rule. The reason of leavng she cited was that I don't care about her and because I could not wait wthout calling her till she finish her exams. I want to know whether she still loves me or not and whether she will call me at the end of this year which is the time she promised that she willcall me. But now things have changed and I am still wondering whether she will try to approach me or not. And do I have to use the no contact rule? And for how many months do I have to use the no contact rule? Pls gime an advice on this. I need to solve this since i am afraid of losing her for the rest of my life.

I am a boy facing the same situation. After dating for about 6 months, my girl friend asked me to wait for one year, that is until she fninsh her exams, without meetng and absolutely without any contact. I tried but couldn't. I kept on calling her like once in a month. Then she oneday told me on the phone that she no longer belongs to me since I couldnt wait till she finish her exams. She even told me that she started dating again with her ex(her first). But my friends who are also her friends told me that she went dating wth her ex's big brother. I found it very hard to live wthout her. Kept myself awake reading all the notes and cards she have sent. I am now using the no contact rule and getting better. Now I have much time left revising my text books and i think i could become a wiser, better person without her.