vaguero915

Thank you for the advice, but I am still lost as ever. It is hard to make a decision when you're scared to hurt the ones you love. Even if it is unintentional. I will think about was is best for myself before I make a choice I might regret later. I'm glad to hear that I am not the only one who has issues like this. I hope everything goes well for you. God Bless [-o

Remember the last time you felt this way when the last relationship ended? Just think of it this way, you got over it. It is hard at first, I KNOW, but just focus on the future and you will realize that things happen for a reason. Your last relationship prior to this one ended, you moved on and met another girl. Now this one has ended and eventually you will meet someone new. Circle of life.

I am in a relationship that could be real good if it wasn't for my insecurities. I seem to have a hard time trusting anyone because of things that have happened in my past (too personal to post). Because of this my relationship seems to be going nowhere. I get angry at who I am with because I am afraid of being hurt. Although my partner does not do anything intentionally to make me mad, sad or hurt, I find fault in everything that he does. I've tried not to be insecure but nothing I do seems to work. I'm wondering if I should just end the relationship and deal with my own problems before I can actually settle down. With anyone for that matter. Am I being too hard on myself? Am I being fair to my partner if they say they will work through it with me, but I would rather not? I know this contradicts my last sentence, but I feel that I do need someone there to support me with my emotions on why I am the way I am. Frankly, I know I'm difficult sometimes and I'm sure if I was in the other persons shoes, I would get tired of this emotional rollercoaster and want out. What can I do to change my attitude and make things better for myself? I know it won't happen overnight, but I am more than willing to try anything. I guess that's why I'm asking for your opinions. [-o