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Hey all, I had a post on here last week, two years, lots of fighting..just a break?.. anyway, this week has been killing me because I found out some more stuff, and the more I find out, the more I want to make things right... Anyway, my friend was talkin to my ex, and apparently she said that she had no intentions of getting back with me. Then another friend who talked to her said that she wanted time for her to be her, and that she will get in touch with me when she's ready to talk. I think she told my friend that she had no intentions of getting back together because it was so soon after the break up and she was still mad. Anyway, come to find out that she isn't interested in anyone else, but she wants to stay single to have a hassle free environment for the semester. My friend says give her a month or two.. but I dunno, is that too long? I know the 'no contact' rule will help because it'll make her miss me.. hopefully. I have a very long letter that explains everything, apologizes, and is an open invitation to work things out slowly.. but I'm afraid if I send it, she won't read it. I was plannin on sending it after Valentine's Day, but that's only 6 days away. I would do anything in this world to show her true happiness, if she'd just give me the chance So, I need a lot of help, and advice. Please, what should I do???

Hey all, I'm a new user, and I need some help 2 days ago, my girlfriend of 2 years had decided to leave me. We have been fighting about a lot of stupid stuff for awhile, and a lot of it was my fault. We've been separated because I'm at home and she's at school, so it's that much harder to deal with it all. I kept trying to make things better, even though things were just fine the way they were. Anyway, she tells me she wants her freedom to have fun. I asked if we were completely done, or if this was just a break. She told me a break, and told me that she didn't really want to see/talk to me for awhile. I asked if there was someone else, or if she wanted to see other people, and she said no. At the end of the conversation, we were both pretty upset and she told me she'd talk to me soon. I've had this knot in my stomach since it happened, and I can't handle this. I need some advice. I had the ideas of writing her a letter, letting her know that I wanted to fix our problems and work at the relationship slowly.. I want to send her flowers, and I really want to talk to her. But I'm respecting the fact that she wants her space. I need all the help I can get.. I'm dyin here.. any ideas?? I know this is probably the 9 millionth thread like this, but I still need some help! Thanks