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I asked out a girl for Valentines Day to go out with my friend and his girlfriend, they are going to dinner and bowling. and that sounds good to go but im not sure if my girl can go because it is kinda far away. so i was thinking about taking her to a movie theatre, its the cheap movie theatre (the one that gets all of the old movies), but i have a friend that works there and he gives me everything for free and i can go anywhere in the building. does this sound like a stupid idea? would she think of me as cheap for taking her to a place like this? okay that was the first part, now the second part is that i dont know what to get her. does anyone have any suggestions of good valentines gifts for a new girlfriend...(i thought about those kiss-kiss bears that blush, i saw the comercial) anyways i would like some help please thank you

well i'm never been really good at geting over girls, usually i just start liking a diferent girl. like all year i've really liked this girl, but then i was too afraid to ask her for her number and now i'm never gonna see her again, i think that was a dumb mistake on my part, but now somehow i'm over it. it just happens i guess, if u think about trying to get over her, then u wont...but just try to carry on with your life. like okay you are graduating school soon, so you have more in life to care about then this girl. in a couple of months ull look down on this as somthing funny that happened in your life. so you should just try to have a good time while ur still in school.

I'm a sophomore in high school, and there's this girl that i like. she doesnt go to my school, but we talk on the phone a lot and see each other too cuz we live pretty close. well i like her, and her friend said that she likes me, so i'm thinking about asking her out. however, this girl seems like pefect to me-she gets good grades, doesnt get in trouble with her parents or anyone else, she's really nice, and really pretty. she's a dancer, and a singer and she's never even had a boyfriend. i was so surprised because of how good looking she is. i know from my past relationships that for some reason i get bored after a few months, like all i can think about is how i want to see other peopple. well i really like this girl and i want to ask her out but im very afraid of hurting her or breaking her spirit. i'm afraid that we'll get into something serious, but then it will end up like my past girls and i'll just get tired of her and hurt her. does anyone know what i should do?

hey what you said reminds me of somthing that's happened to me before, some stuff like that. however, i know that you don't want to hear that she doesn't seem interested, but truly thats what it sounds like. yeah it hurts, but you can't try to make her like you. i think that if you make her that valentines card it will just make her think worse of you. i think you should just try to be her friend if you actually care about her, because she doesnt seem interested in you. sorry

Okay...here's the story...a year ago i did this play just for fun with a friend of mine, and i met a girl that i am very attracted too. She used to always try to talk to me but i just got really nervous and didnt know what to say...then...the play was over and i never saw her again, well then this year when the play came around again i decided to do it again so i can try to start something with this girl. well she has talked to me, and seemed to flirt with me several times throughout this stuff, but i still get nervous trying to talk to her. now tomrrow is my last play, my last chance, and i am afraid ill chicken out again. i cant do these plays again, but even though it sounds really dumb that i cant just ask for her number, i get so nervous talking to her, my tongue gets all tied up into knots and then the stupidest thigns come out of my mouth. i'm not even confident that she would give me her number, but i think she mite. i dont know what it is. i might just sound naive or somthing but i think about this girl all of the time and i cant seem to get her off of my mind. i dont really know much about her and same with her to me, so there should be no pressure to talk to her but i still feel so nervous. please someone out there i need advice on how to talk to this girl for tomorrow