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i need advice.. but i dont wanna leave it, its been 2 long for me to leave it with her goign soon. all advice is welcome thou... (god knows how many times i check this for replys )

i tryed finding out from her best m8 if she likes me. she said shes not intrested in boys atm... ???? lie or truth u think for a 16 year old girl which is very smart and shy and perfect

ok heres wats happened today... chemestry today.. coursework lession i sit infrount of the girl i like... i just said hi to her nothign else i nhtis lession... me and my m8s were messin with calculators writeing stuff on it... and i managed to write 4 4 eva! on it then she walked past me and i oh crap and covered up the screen... i didnt think she saw it. then this afternoon in geog i said hi to her again in geography.. then after geog i was talking to her when gogin to science. Just talking about stuff.. where shes heading next which lession and i asked her if her cold was better and she said yer its much better and i said thats good then... then i asked her for directions to a rom and i was given em from her which was nice... so nowt much happened today... but i dont wanna leave it.... shes a perfect girl...................................................................................................................... oh well ill keep u upto date on thigns.

that brings me onot my next point... how to get over this... help!... coz when this sinks in in hte morning ?(very tied atm) ill be very upset.

ok. i have a fear of rejection, i admit to that. i had a bad reputation and i know i will be rejected from the girls i like... and this forces me not to ask em out or even speak to them sometimes (also nerves thou). but theses somethigns i do do no matter what. i can agree to myself cirtain things i will do and set myself a deadline for it. and i will do it. i only do it for major thigns nothing small.. like i promiced myself once that i would go round tho the girl i likes house and tell her how i feal.. i went orund there.. i stood outside her frount door for 45min in the freezeing cold before i could knock on the door but i did it. (oh and after it all a "just be friends" answer.. agh! i was so upset.) try to set yerself things to do and promice yourself you will do them... and when. and when it comes forget everythign else and just go and do it. ive also heared repeteing to yourself phrases which make you more oncfident help also. helped me today in school i tell thee. Good luck iwth your girl.. ive been single for 5 years now (well went out with a girl a few months ofr ofr 2 days is dont count). and feal as if im gogin to be single for alot longer coz i cant get the girl i liek to go out with me.. (check out my thread on here). link removed

something new happened: i talked to her! i talked to her on tues in school.. i asked her if she hated me and she said that she didnt h8 me. (woot). she had a cold so i wished her ot get well soon.. and i talked to her a bit. her friend in frount of her gave me her email address also... and when her friend turned back to her and said that i now had her address she said "what?" and became a little more embarased. she actes more embarased arround me then others, she shoulnds much more shy when speaking to me then when shes speaking to her friends or other people. -------------------- tonight i was speaking to the person which gave me her email online, i asked her if she thought i had a chance with her. she said "honistly, no, because she is not interested in boys." is this uncommon.. a 16 year old girl not interested in boys.. or is htis a lie or is this a lie from her to cover up who she really likes? ------------------- i like this girl alot, she means alot to me i cant sotp thinking about her every min of everyday. and im crazy about her. and i admit to it, she knows i like her but idont know what to do. 10 weeks until ill never see her again unless i do something. i need advice. Because i care about her. Im going to get her a valentines card but im also thinking "should i sign it?" my friends think i should but some people say u never sign a valentines card... my best friend thinks im weird for chooseing the girl i did as the girl i love, but i dont care what he thinks. he only thinks that because no one else in the school fanceys her (or admits it, there all agesnt me secretly loveing her...) . But if theres even a slight chance she likes me id like to take it. ive liked her for over a year now and all id love is a hug off her to be honist and it would make all the itme ive had in school worth while... but i dunno what to do. does she like me? do i have a chance? even if its a slight one? what should i do? help me please. thank you.

im thiking of getting her a valentines card,... insiade putting that i still really like her... wat u think also wat else should i put in the card? im not good at that sort of stuff.

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hello all.. im not one normally to ask for help but im prtty stuck and i would need advice. heres how it is... for about a year now ive liked this girl at school.... shes really pritty in my eyes but yet non of the other lads in my year seam to like her in the same way..... she is a shy girl and is the smartist girl in our year... (year 11 in egland thats 15/16 year olds)... last november i managed to pull up enough courage to go round to her house and tell her how i felt about her... but i couldnt ask her out... i just said to her "i like you alot..." and she asked "what are you trying to say?" and i repeted myself.... "im trying to say that i like you... alot..." i couldnt say it... but she said that she didnt know me.... i went home and i had an idea id phone her and ask her to go as friends out to see this film in town... she said "no im sorry, but id rather us be just friends for now in school..." then someone found out that i liked her and spreaded it all arround school and i found out from her friends that she was "freaking out" about me liking her... :S. i cant even speak to her...i say to myself "right im gogin to go and say hello and have a conversatio nwith her". i see her and i cant say it and i bail out... 2 weeks ago in chemestry i managed to say "hello" in a jittery nervous voice... she didnt answer me.. its possable that she didnt hear me thou... 4 days ago it was her 16th b-day... i couldnt even say happy b day to her. i was goner get her a card and stuff but i thought it may cause her to "freak out" more.. :S the day after her b-day i managed to say "hi im sorry i didnt say happy birthday to you yestoday i didnt have an opputunity to do so... so happy birthday" and she said "thanks" in her nice shy voice... i find myself thinking about her non stop, and id really like to go out with her... im not like all the other guys at my school (ie sex happy) but i find myself pritty ugly even thou some people say im not... i had a bad reputation thou where half the people in the school seam to have somethign agenst me even thou i dont do anythign wrong... which im sure isnt helping... i just need advice... in 10 weeks its our exams and after the exams i leave school and will prob never see her again unless i do somethign... i dont know what to do... ill take any advice u can give me... i like her alot but i dunno wat to do... i think one of her best m8s dosnt like me that much allthough talks to me i dont htink she likes me... and the girl i like is never allown in school only allown on a night when shes at home sometimes... please i ask of your guidence :S.... oh and... oh and i did talk to her a bit.. last year i used to sit next to her in maths and i talked to her a bit then... much harder now for me to.... much much harder. i was at my friends house and online he was tlaking to her best m8 (the one that dont like me that much i dont think.) and he asked her if the girl i liked likes anyoen at school.. she said that the girl i like dosnt want a bf right now... when i was talking to her that night in november when i showed up she was a little surprised hwen i told her i liked her she was clearly shocked and held her hand on her chest when i said it... if its relevent... anyways... please help.