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I posted a topic yesterday about bleeding during pregnancy and I went to a DR right after and found I had miscarried The dr couldnt tell me alot of stuff that I was asking (im not really sure why) but he setup where I would see my DR Monday. I was just wondering if there is anything ( I know its too late now) but if there is anything that I couldve done to keep from miscarrying or what I could've done to cause it. My bf and I both are really upset and worried that something I or We have done caused this to happen I've searched up on the internet and read info from the Dr's but I dont know I still have alot of questions un-answered I guess. I just feel so lost right now. Will this empty feeling ever go away? Thanks for listening... * sigh *

I'm sorry.. I am in no way trying to be mean about this but didn't you guys learn the first time? I'm 17 and Just had a miscarriage , This was my first pregnancy but I also know now not to go back out and do what I did to get pregnant again and knowing i'm not ready?! .. But for you in general, why did you even do anything to get pregnant while your son is only what a week, two weeks old? is that even possible? (im sorry i may be stupid but that just sounds alittle.. Weird to me~!) I wouldn't know what to do if I got pregnant at 13/14, it was hard enough when I found out I was pregnant when I was 17, done with school , having a job and living on my own. If you guys are mature enough to have sex you should be mature enough to realize you need to use protection ESPECIALLY after you get pregnant for the SECOND or THIRD TIME... I mean seriously at 14 I dont even think you are old enough to get a job? So why should you be out getting pregnant? Maybe you will think about it next time! I just hope your kids dont suffer from your guys mistakes. Once again I apologize for soundin like such a B----.

I'm 17 and 3.5 Months pregnant, This morning I noticed I was spotting blood alittle and really thought nothing of it and just asked my BF's mom and she said it was normal. But now the bleeding is getting heavier and heavier (feels like i'm on my period) and now i'm starting to have mild cramps in my back and side, but I can feel the cramps getting worse as I sit here. Is this normal or should I get to a DR. right away? Thanks.