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  1. Ash- even though the pleasure spots aren't too far in, some women like their cervix touched by the head during sex. My ex loved it every time I pushed all the way in, hitting the wall.

     

    Blah- With your size, I recommend the same as Ash. Also- try just fingering her in the meantime, and gradually increasing the amount of fingers you use.

  2. If he's happy, and she's happy, then you won't have much of a chance. You'd have to wait out their relationship. In the meantime, date more!

     

    You could leave anonymous messages/death threats/stuffed animal heads in your friend's locker/bed, threatening her to leave her boyfriend or something bad will happen. If she doesn't comply, leave tools lying next to her car, or empty bottles of poison near her water bottle. I hope this helps!

  3. Well, the good thing is, you know that you can live life without them.

    People change; friends aren't friends anymore. If you feel like things can get nasty, just avoid them. While you're apart, you'll realize one or the other: You miss their presense and realize how much you should be with them, or you realize their differences and that you're better off without them.

     

    I had this friend, and ex, who I broke up with. I wanted to stay friends at least, because I loved being around her and joking, etc. She smoked pot, and excessively, and stayed behind this 'straw man.' While I was away from her, I grew more on to the fact that I really didn't need her for anything. I could not handle knowing a person such as she, for she was very immature, rude, and misunderstanding of anything that applied to me. I'm starting to edge on to abandoning her, and I feel much more happier now.

  4. Well, she's not exactly going to call you anything else than that. I, too, suggest hanging out with her more, and sometimes, you can just ask if she wants to go anywhere further with you than just "friends." However, that is only for the bold and daring. *bites a Doritos chip*

  5. That's an appels and oranjes sort of thing.

     

    My approach to that is to lead on to someone that I like them. Eye contact, bodily contact, conversations, etc. That's my safest route to go without being too direct about it and without the awkwardness. It's also the way to tell if they like you, as well. When you feel comfortable telling that to someone, go for it.

  6. It's not really what you can do, it's something he has to do on his own. Talk to him about it. You need someone that you can trust, that you can feel comfortable/compatible with. If he doesn't meet your needs, you simply need to find someone else who will. It's tough to make that decision; I just broke up with someone for the same problem. I wanted to stay with her because I really cared for her, but I wasn't getting what I needed in our relationship.

     

    Don't let him push you into having sex with him for the belief that he wouldn't put you down ever again. Don't ever consider being intimate in the more extreme ways with anyone until you find yourself comfortable sharing secrets like that. If he is understanding of you and he cares about you, he will support your needs; you will find yourself more comfortable with him.

     

    But if he's not, you'll have to bite the bullet and be brave, because it's going to hurt for the first week or two. After that and you find someone who will support your needs, someone you'll be happier with, you'll be more thankful for breaking up with him.

  7. Know that the moment you kiss her, she's not going to want her bf anymore. Infact, if she tells you that she might be tempted to kiss you, it's obvious she is starting to like you more than her bf. It seems that you want to go out with her, but stand strong. It's better to have a girl completely end her relationship with another before going out with someone else, or shit will happen down the road where he could get in between you and her while you both could be going out.

     

    My advice is to go with the flow. If she kisses you, she kisses you.

  8. It's not as bad as a friend of mine that told a girl he loved her within four days...

     

    I'm not trying to sound negative, but when two exchange words such as,"You're special to me," or, "You're like no other," it's really true, but then again, it can be said to anybody. I've been badly scarred from my first and only relationship so far- because my girlfriend told me she loved me, that I was precious to her, etc.; but it really didn't turn out that way down the road.

     

    What I'm trying to say is, give your relationship more time, and more experience with her, to develop and realize your feelings. As you continue with her, your feelings will grow and grow.

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