I am feeling the same way you feel but I have no kids. I have been married for 5 years. (dated for 3 years) I got married too young at the age of 23. I am currently going to school and working full time. I do find myself very stressed. However, I am not happy in the marriage. I feel like being single and being alone. My wife has no friends so she needs me 24/7. I don't see my family in Mexico anymore because she is not a big fan going to Mexico with me. We have had hours and hours of discussion about going to Mexico. It usually ends up in her crying and getting no where. Since I got married 5 years ago, I have seen them twice. Maybe I should wait until I finish school and get a real job because things might get better. However, I feel nothing will really change. I have been very short and grumpy with my wife for couple months now. She has noticed but doesn't say anything. She only comments how SHE is not receiving cuddles anymore, how SHE is not gettig touches from me, how SHE doesn't get too many hugs anymore. I have been frustrated because its all about her. I still love her but not in the same way. I can't even talk to her about this because she loves me very much and I can't break her heart.