mystique

When i was talking about how unappealing his dream future was of being a millionare from and idea, and retiring for the rest of his life, becuase i believed that sacrafices for what u want is more appealing to me (he called that type of life poverty) he told me that it is human nature that we can never be satisfied by something. and eventually you will want something else. he says he says this out of his own experiences. besides relating this to me personally in terms of our relationship, i think this is a very sad way of looking at the world , that u can never be satisfied, i think greed, wars, adultry orginate from this.... and he finds it not sad, and widely accepted . i am seriously thinking aobut ending the relationship. 1) is it silly to end the relationship over something like that, (its significant to me) 2) do u agree with him about that aspect of human nature ? thanks

i have realized that i can not (mentally) have a boyfriend at this time - im noticing behavior that i shouldnt see (ie getting depressed if he doesnt suggest we get together) - so i decided i need a break from him to get my life together and be who i want to be. i love him, and its gunna be hard for me but mostly im worried about him, he reacts to the extreme when these things happens and takes it out on himself, what is the easiest way to do this/explain this to him, and what is this no contact rule? is it fair? thx

That depends on a number of factors, if u have blonde hair, or if you are asian, it tends to not look as good on them. if you have dark brown hair, and do it the right way, it can make a world of difference, i personally like scruffy guys, but it has to fit there look, and not just be in certain places. if the hair grows like a beard, it isnt good looking to me anymore. oh and hope ur hair isnt too ruff ^_^ that is my opinion