I think it would be great to have a 3some with your partner. I did and we both loved it. It was a close friend of mine that he had desire for when he met her I did too and she did too. So we did it and we still do on occasion and its fun. Everyone needs sexual excitement and times in there marriage. I have been married to this wonderful person for 5 years and he only with her when I am around and I don't mind. Even if she is there when I get home it turns me on. Go and try to see if you like it. I felt deep in love with her but my husband told me to wake the hell up and it was only us not her when the day was over. He loves me and will never leave me until death do us part. So, I listen so now all we do is do it and that's it no hard loving attach feelings anymore. We still care about her though.
Good luck
