First of all.......i just want to say to Starlette that I appreciate your input and I accept that you have your own views but I dont think its fair that you are judging me and not accepting that I really do love her. I honestly dont think you should be posting replies to people that are genuinely seeking help about matters, when you just give them negative responses.
To Duncan, nameofthegame, and enadevoli I really appreciate your help. Of course we will be using protection!!
Its sooooooo rare in my house to ever be home alone...we are a big family and theres always someone here. its pretty much the same at her house but i mean i guess we can just wait for the right time. i want it to be 'perfect' for her....so i dont want to rush it. I mean the last thing I want is for one of my brothers or sisters to walk in...or even worse, my PARENTS! LOL
But thanks again for everyone's advice but if anyone else has some suggestions, please feel free to respond.
thanks people.